Seriously... what the frak?

[NobodyCares1]

so I a week ago I danced with a girl let's call her Lucy... it actually happened kinda fast I approached her... she was looking at me I grabbed her around waist... she immidiately turned aroud and we started kissing... we danced for a while and then she told me that she has to go... so I got her number and kissed her...

three days later I wrote a text message to her... with help of my female friends... it was basically like "Hi Lucy, how are you? How was your weekend? Do you remember friday? anyway bye and have a nice evening "

to what she replied "Hi, I know you're the guy from the Disco (let's say that's the name of that dico), but I don't know your name. Nice evening to you too"

Me "You don't remember or I haven't even told you? My name is _________"

Lucy "Oh I thought so I just wasn't sure"

Me "So how are you?"

L "Well it could be better you?"

Me "What's bothering you since it could be better? I'm fine "

L "bla bla about parents... And how did you celebrate valentines day?"

Me "Just like any other day... but I'd be much happier if I'd celebrate it like friday with you :* and how did you celebrate it?"

L "I was out with my friends (female). We were drinking. Well on friday it was kinda unexpected at least for me."

Me "It was unexpected for me too but I don't regret it anyway drinking with friends on valentines day... that's very romantic so it means that I have a chance? "

L "Well we were drinking romantically. Why should you have a chance? "

Me "How does one drink romantically? Chance?... Chance to see you again "

L "Well it's better than being depressed well I don't know but I won't be at the Disco anytime soon."

Me "Well we can also meet somewhere else... on a different occasion "

L "Hm? For example? "

Me "Well we could go somewhere together... for a beer maybe?" (I know beer kills the romantic mood)

and she haven't written to me since... it always took her a couple of hours to write back... sometimes even half a day but now it's two days... anyway I'm just interested if I did something wrong or if she's playing some game or what... because it seemed to me that she was interested... so any thoughts?

 

[asianbboy]

Me "It was unexpected for me too but I don't regret it anyway drinking with friends on valentines day... that's very romantic so it means that I have a chance? "

Here's the cumshot, but the whole thing reeks of desperation. You are lowering your own value mate

 

[Jack Wealthy]

You were unsure man.

I'd text something like "You, I think I held your hand Friday."
Then two messages later "I want to get to know you better. Come to mine Friday, we're having drinks."

Don't try and get to know her off of texts and don't listen to girls advice for texts. They'll tell you what they'd like to hear from a girly-friend because admitting what makes them wet would be embarrassing. Like admitting what gets you hard to female friends. Except harder because girls are told sex is bad.

You also make your romantic intentions to obvious, sound to post and seem to have no sexuality. Be a beast. Go for definate plans in less then ten messages or don't even try.

 

[NobodyCares1]

well... I actually talk quite open about my sexuality with those two friends... but anyway I thought that asking them for advice might not be the best solution but it was the best at that time thank you for explaining it to me