"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Seriously...What is up with that?!?!?!

vagrant

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wow...this girl who I think has a strong interest in me didn't show up nor called or texted me up until now. I let her barrow one dvd about a week ago. She texted me asking if I was going somewhere cuz she said she wants to return the dvd to me. I told her she could bring it tomorrow cuz I was going be home cuz it was my sister's birthday and she was having a party. She said since she was going to the mall she might as well stop by. She knows where I live cuz she already gave me a ride once. She didn't show up like I said nor called or texted me.

Forget my chance. I want my dvd back lol. One of my friend told me she probably wants to return it when I'm all alone cuz she likes me. What I think though is that she's the hot type that gets all the attention all the time who begs her for a date and I'm the type that wasn't giving her any of that. She promised me she'll go and didn't and now she's expecting that I'm wondering why and she's thinking that will increase my interest for her.

I didn't even ask her for a date. Is this what you guys call "flaking"?...I have her pix btw if you guys want to see her. I won't post it here though!~

Let's all discuss this so we could all learn!~
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yama600rr

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you know you dont care about the dvd!!! i think your friend is right, she probably feels weird coming over with all those people during a party. why dont you call her and see why she didnt show up. you want this girl then go get her.
 

vagrant

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yama600rr said:
you know you dont care about the dvd!!! i think your friend is right, she probably feels weird coming over with all those people during a party. why dont you call her and see why she didnt show up. you want this girl then go get her.
I did call her. She didn't answer.
 
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