"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seriously...What is up with that?!?!?!

vagrant

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wow...this girl who I think has a strong interest in me didn't show up nor called or texted me up until now. I let her barrow one dvd about a week ago. She texted me asking if I was going somewhere cuz she said she wants to return the dvd to me. I told her she could bring it tomorrow cuz I was going be home cuz it was my sister's birthday and she was having a party. She said since she was going to the mall she might as well stop by. She knows where I live cuz she already gave me a ride once. She didn't show up like I said nor called or texted me.

Forget my chance. I want my dvd back lol. One of my friend told me she probably wants to return it when I'm all alone cuz she likes me. What I think though is that she's the hot type that gets all the attention all the time who begs her for a date and I'm the type that wasn't giving her any of that. She promised me she'll go and didn't and now she's expecting that I'm wondering why and she's thinking that will increase my interest for her.

I didn't even ask her for a date. Is this what you guys call "flaking"?...I have her pix btw if you guys want to see her. I won't post it here though!~

Let's all discuss this so we could all learn!~
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yama600rr

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you know you dont care about the dvd!!! i think your friend is right, she probably feels weird coming over with all those people during a party. why dont you call her and see why she didnt show up. you want this girl then go get her.
 

vagrant

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yama600rr said:
you know you dont care about the dvd!!! i think your friend is right, she probably feels weird coming over with all those people during a party. why dont you call her and see why she didnt show up. you want this girl then go get her.
I did call her. She didn't answer.
 
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