I met this girl from an online dating site. We share a bottle of wine and we are connecting but she seems kind of serious so I do not really think anything of it. But she buys more wine without asking me so I figure she is up for some fun. Then she suggests some more but Im balking at the prices the bar charges so I suggest we get some from an offlicence and she suggests we drink it at her place.
We get back to her place and listen to some cool music and dance. She criticises my dancing so Im a bit put out. And I put my hand around her waist and she says "Who does that? It is weird!". Ive also figured out by this point that her ex boyfriend is in a constant text communication with her as she is answering her phone every few minutes and later in the evening she admits they've only been broken up a week.
She spills her wine over me twice so Im a bit cautious as she seems a bit drunk and unstable. We kiss and she tells me to relax and again says "I kiss weirdely". Then she says I smell.
When I just freeze her out she asks me if I am ok and then shortly afterwards starts trying to kiss me.
I get a bit fed up so when she talks about me getting a taxi home I dont object especially as she agrees to pay. Then she says that if I had asked to stay she would have let me sleep on the couch. I told her that it was her house and I wasn't going to be presumptive.
Anyway she then reneges on her agreement to pay but by then I am happy to be out of there.
Of course I blame myself because it feels like I screwed up or wasn't good enough. But Ive been in this situation before and I think some girls really get off on the whole push-pull thing without ever having any intention of sleeping with the guy.
We get back to her place and listen to some cool music and dance. She criticises my dancing so Im a bit put out. And I put my hand around her waist and she says "Who does that? It is weird!". Ive also figured out by this point that her ex boyfriend is in a constant text communication with her as she is answering her phone every few minutes and later in the evening she admits they've only been broken up a week.
She spills her wine over me twice so Im a bit cautious as she seems a bit drunk and unstable. We kiss and she tells me to relax and again says "I kiss weirdely". Then she says I smell.
When I just freeze her out she asks me if I am ok and then shortly afterwards starts trying to kiss me.
I get a bit fed up so when she talks about me getting a taxi home I dont object especially as she agrees to pay. Then she says that if I had asked to stay she would have let me sleep on the couch. I told her that it was her house and I wasn't going to be presumptive.
Anyway she then reneges on her agreement to pay but by then I am happy to be out of there.
Of course I blame myself because it feels like I screwed up or wasn't good enough. But Ive been in this situation before and I think some girls really get off on the whole push-pull thing without ever having any intention of sleeping with the guy.
