"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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seriously bad things are gonna happen i met girl at bar

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i met girl at bar and need advice how to determine interest

I was talking and was going fine and normal conversation and was talking about what she drinks and her favorite rapper n stuff like that then when my friend got me wanted to leave so i told her put number in my phone she said no i was like we be friends she said she had boyfriend and it was guy on otherside talking to another girl
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thelonewolflegend said:
Seriously help
Well you're now suggesting you would shoot people dead if you don't get the help you need. I strongly suggest you seek professional help now. There is nobody on this site that can help you. Unless it's a lecture you're looking for.
 
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No girls fking care or understand my pain its ridiclous i am getting help im going therapiat every week n stuff
I need SOME REAL HELP COMR ON
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thelonewolflegend said:
No girls fking care or understand my pain its ridiclous i am getting help im going therapiat every week n stuff
I need SOME REAL HELP COMR ON
Well, have you read the DJ bible yet as has been suggested to you many times? If not, why not?
 

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Last of the Alphas said:
Give up. Nobody here cares about you.
It's always the same question that we reach a dead end with this one.

We advise to read the information given that will help ease this man's pain and he refuses to address this.

Elliot and many others like him blamed others for his pain and thought he could ease it with a gun. Doesn't work like that. Nobody cares for your pain and nor should they. Pain is like a knock at the door. It's something inside of you telling you you have to work things out. Yourself.
 

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What kind of help? Telling you not to blame other people and lash out at them?

Okay - you've been helped.

Now go to an ER and tell them you want to be a mass murderer.

You'll get plenty of 'help'.

Do it now!
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
No girls fking care or understand my pain its ridiclous i am getting help im going therapiat every week n stuff
I need SOME REAL HELP COMR ON
If you're going to therapy, you should get homework/assignments to do for the next week. You should improve a bit from week to week. Can you see some improvement since you begun? The therapist is somehow a guide for your journey, as Virgil is in Dante's Inferno Anime. You will need to take the steps and get where you want to go.
 

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i need serious help or elliot roger part two
You shouldn't write things like that lightly. It's the kind of stuff that can get SoSuave shut down. The moderators would be in their right to forward your information to your local police or even the FBI.

Think that would be an overreaction? Just consider how things could have played out differently in the many different mass-shootings in the U.S. had people who saw the shooters' social media threats passed them on to the proper authorities.

I urge those who run this website to take this seriously. It's not your job to determine whether or not this is just internet bravado from an unstable person or an actual dangerous and legitimate threat - but police are paid to sort that out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have his phone number and I think the moderators here should seriously pass it, along with threads like this, to St. Louis PD. His instagram account is also here: http://instagram.com/theonlytruelegend/

Only sharing the instagram to show that this is a real person and not a troll playing a character on an internet message board.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
I agree his details should be passed to the
Fbi.
I just try to put myself in the shoes of, say, the brother of one of the girls killed in Santa Monica. I would be irate and unimaginably sad if I knew that my sister's death was preventable, if only the people who read the online threats took them seriously and passed them on to the proper authorities.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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His posts are downright weird, always seemed like a possible troll... surprised the moderators didn't ban him for a while but judging by this perhaps they shouldn't ban him and take another course of action..
 
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