Serious Relationship Help

[mll0016]

Here's the dilemma...
I am 19, my girlfriend is 18. I am currently in college at Oklahoma University right now. She has anticipated on going to UT her whole life. Her parents both went to UT, 2 of her brothers went to UT, and 2 of her sisters went to UT.
I was the ******* that convinced her to go to OU.
She signed the papers to attend OU yesterday.
And today, we got in a huge fight. i don't see it working out at all. I'm going to try as hard as I can to make it work though.
What the hell do I do??

 

[Upside]

My theory?

She regrets her decision and is projecting it on you. You can't change how she feels. Time will tell with this one. If you try and make her feel better it will only push her away. Stay back from her for a bit.

 

[COD]

too young to be in a relationship...........HAVE U SEEN ALL the chics in U.......why have one when U can have several.

 

[Igetit!]

Here's the dilemma...
I am 19, my girlfriend is 18. I am currently in college at Oklahoma University right now. She has anticipated on going to UT her whole life. Her parents both went to UT, 2 of her brothers went to UT, and 2 of her sisters went to UT.
I was the ******* that convinced her to go to OU.
She signed the papers to attend OU yesterday.
And today, we got in a huge fight. i don't see it working out at all. I'm going to try as hard as I can to make it work though.
What the hell do I do??

There not enough info here to help you out.

You said that you two got into a fight today,but you didn't say about what.

Also,how is the history of the relationship;example:How long have you two been together? Have things been going well in the relationship up until the fight you two had today?


You can't just say,"I had a fight with my girlfriend. Help me".


You're telling us the outcome without going us any background.

It's hard to follow a movie when you walk in an hour and a half after it's already started.



Anyway,from what you have written,you've gotten yourself in a tight spot here. If basically this girl's whole family all went to UT,then she's going to want to go too. And it has nothing to do with the school itself,but to be a part of the tradition her family has with the school.


This could have the potential of breaking the relationship apart because to her "EMOTIONALLY" it's like separating her from her family.
And that's a losing battle.


That's why more info is needed from you.

It'd be hard to believe that everything was going fine and well with you two,then when this school situation came up,now everything is on the rocks.

 

[backbreaker]

Here's the dilemma...
I am 19, my girlfriend is 18.

that is seriously all I read.

dude you are in the most important phase of your life. What you do for the next 5-10 years is what is going to determine how the rest of your life is going to play out.

she wants to play, you are probably going to college, go fvck some skanks and get plastered and leave this one and let her do her thing.