Serious question - hear me out please

[LonesomeLoser]

Does anyone here know anything about mail order bride services, or can you tell me about any of them that are legit, if there are any? I'm going to stop coming here and complaining about how I resent having to have anything to offer a woman, because I feel guilty knowing that this site is for guys who sincerely want to improve themselves, which I don't. So while I won't stop complaining and moaning, I'll stop doing it here.

I've given up on ever getting a woman of quality looks, who would make a good trophy, doing what I want and hanging all over me and stroking my ego. Just as I resent having to work for a living (probably because I was spoiled and sheltered growing up, but I see nothing wrong with that except there's no one to take care of me now), I resent having to produce anything of value in order to get a quality woman. BUT one last idea, one last shot in the dark, is that maybe I can buy myself a woman who I would find useful in the ways I described above, with a mail order bride.

I had naively hoped that I could just pick a woman out of a catalog and as long as I could buy her, they'd fly her out to me and she'd have nothing to say about it. But I knew that was too good to be true and unfortunately she would have to like me. But I'm thinking maybe there are some women who are so desperate to get out of their living situation if their home country, that living with me and being my one source of happiness in life would be a vast improvement over their current conditions. And also hopefully I could find one who had a very conservative upbringing and was taught that it doesn't matter if she's happy with me or not, she has to be loyal to me. Like I said its a shot in the dark and I'm already resigning myself to the occasional hooker I'll be able to afford here and there, but it can't hurt to ask I guess.

So anyway this is my last thread whether anyone has any helpful answers or not. Bye.

 

[Z Man]

This post is mainly for everybody's info, though I don't know that you, lonesome, deserve some advice if that lazy attitude of yours is really you.

I actually have a cousin that is close to my age that sounds like you: doesn't wanna do anything in life, just lock himself away in his room and play videogames.

He actually got involved with a girl from Ukraine over e-mails, etc. He was being a smartass with me, joking about how he had a girlfriend and I didn't.

I decided to do some research into the Russian brides, etc. and signed up for a 3-month period on one of those sites where I got bombarded with invites from various women. I was flattered at first but then quickly realized the e-mails were automatic every day.

I actually did converse by e-mail with a few cuties from Ukraine and Russia for a while, but in the long run it would not work out due to distance, immigration laws, etc. I got out while I could.

One thing I did learn about most Russian bride services is they are a scam. The girl will ask you to send her money to get a plane ticket to come meet you for a few weeks, enough time to set up the wedding, etc.

Turns out, the legit Russian services prefer the man to fly over to Russia and meet the woman in her home setting, meet her family, etc. and the man makes the effort to get to know her and determine if they can be a match. Also, the man would often meet up with maybe 6 or more potential brides to make the trip worthwhile, then he could choose one. Many Russian women are educated and learn 3 or 4 languages.

In the scam situation, a woman could agree to marry you and have sex with you to get her green card, then dump your ass when her boyfriend makes the trip to your country and they go off to enjoy their new "citizenship".

Back to my cousin: Turns out he sent this girl about $1400 USD to come over here to the USA. She got the money, then suddenly "developed a kidney problem" and needed the money for a hospital stay in the Ukraine. :kick:

SO DON'T DO IT! Unless you are willing to travel to Russia or wherever and put the time and research into like you should with women in your own backyard. Either way, you will still need to make an effort.

Unless robot women are in our near future.

 

[Viking25]

Lonesomeloser...I like your approach..easy and effective.. Loveme.ru is one of the websites that aren't scam.
Rule number one: DO NOT EVER SEND MONEY to any girls.
There are plenty of girls would love to move to the US and make you happy in the process.Just be careful. You might strike gold.