Serious question about sex & sex drive

[hb]

Just invited a chick to come over & chill with me after I got back from work...

We've been talking for 2-3 weeks, all fun, she's super cool & i'm super cool, but i've noticed a trend guys & tell me if i'm alone, after a couple of weeks I quickly go in for the kill...... & I honestly feel like sex takes away from the whole idea of liking/falling for some one. It ****ING UTTERLY DESTROYS IT.

I feel like i've been programmed into thinking that whenever i'm with a girl to go for the gold like Michael Phelps, & I really don't think this is normal. SEX should be a piece of the pie, not the WHOLE da.mn pie.

So that leads to this... how do you djs control your sex drive & use it accordingly...... I'd love to hear your INFO & your thoughts/opinions on this

 

[runner83]

Selective masturbation can help make sure that your sex drive doesn't make you hook up with girls lesser than you only for s.ex.

But think about it...why would you want to spend time with girls for anything else?

Girls on a whole (and this is obviously a broad generalization) tend to lead petty and meaningless lives. Guys, as a general rule, have much more interesting lives.

But, if you want to be with a girl for more than just s.ex, you still must make a move, otherwise you will get b*tchslapped into "let's just be friends" land.


"I feel like i've been programmed into thinking that whenever i'm with a girl to go for the gold like Michael Phelps, & I really don't think this is normal."

Actually, this is completely normal. This is just your true self (carried over from thousands of generations before you) trying to help you make the right decisions, rather than falling for the scripting that others give you.

Forget all the b*s about "true love", falling for each other and stuff like that. The fact is, women are attracted to the man that they spread their legs for because they are sexually attracted, even if they say it's because of something else.

 

[hb]

U ever go to a buffet & eat everything in sight to the point where you feel like a pig & you want to throw it back up?

I'd prefer being suave over simply getting laid, maybe i'm asking for too much but is it possible to have women throw themselves at you for the taking rather than you doing the taking?

All i'm saying is sex drive is not elegant, simple sex drive is not an art, it's animalistic & believe it or not, too much sex actually drains you (remember the movie Rocky where he's told women weaken the knees?)

Now from what I've read on this forum (and correct me if i'm wrong), many of you don't believe in love, u basically prefer the theory of dominance & alpha male, what I say (LoL) & maybe i'm taking a giant leap here is how do you make some one want you to the point where you consume their lives & they are literally yours for the taking, eating out the palm of your hand?

When you attack from an angle where its just sex, you don't gain much & I feel that if a girl respects herself enough(any self respecting woman with value), she is going to lose respect for you because you only want one thing, which leads them to think that your basically a man ***** & I've found that many girls don't like the idea of dating a man *****, so you basically hook up with all these girls & end up alone (ghosts of girlfriends past anybody?) Maybe this isn't new to everyone but its pretty new to me & it's mind boggling that I'm just stumbling over it, maybe woman are actually worth more than their t*ts & *ss, & the amount of respect that you have for a woman is the amount of respect she is going to have for you.

Correct me if i'm wrong!