"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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serious question about my best plate

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So this girl and I had our UPS and downs, but when we get together we manage to always have sex. She was suppossed to go back to school last fall....I won't say I had a part in it, but she always mentions to me i have this emotional hold or power over her.
Ok so last time we got together, she told me not nothing was going to happen....by the end of our date I had her purring in my arms. She's freaky.. and all that good stuff.

Now she is going back to college across the country and im somewhat heart sick, I might miss her. I have other plates, and can usually pick up on the streets just fine. I have that sinking feeling like ill be missing her. Please help.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being tough doesn't mean you don't feel pain. Being tough means you feel pain and move forward anyway.
 

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No cure for it except to live through it. Stay occupied, do things, lots of them....and the standby spin plates of course.
 
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