"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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serious question about my best plate

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So this girl and I had our UPS and downs, but when we get together we manage to always have sex. She was suppossed to go back to school last fall....I won't say I had a part in it, but she always mentions to me i have this emotional hold or power over her.
Ok so last time we got together, she told me not nothing was going to happen....by the end of our date I had her purring in my arms. She's freaky.. and all that good stuff.

Now she is going back to college across the country and im somewhat heart sick, I might miss her. I have other plates, and can usually pick up on the streets just fine. I have that sinking feeling like ill be missing her. Please help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being tough doesn't mean you don't feel pain. Being tough means you feel pain and move forward anyway.
 

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No cure for it except to live through it. Stay occupied, do things, lots of them....and the standby spin plates of course.
 
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