"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Serious help needed for future LTR's

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Ricky

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I really need some help or advice on LTR's for when I get in a new one.

I seem to do OK meeting girls, and dating them for a while and sleeping with them. I even get them to the exclusive stage

I dated one girl for close to 3 years, but then with time it fell apart.

But the vast majority of my relationships have failed before the 6 month mark.

It is depressing.

What advice do you have to keep it going?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Wyldfire

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Some of us from this site have started a LTR forum. Click on my signature link to find it.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just an FYI, most relationships that have a high probability of failure will fail by the six month mark. Don't take it personally, it happens to everyone.
 
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