"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Serious help needed for future LTR's

Ricky

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I really need some help or advice on LTR's for when I get in a new one.

I seem to do OK meeting girls, and dating them for a while and sleeping with them. I even get them to the exclusive stage

I dated one girl for close to 3 years, but then with time it fell apart.

But the vast majority of my relationships have failed before the 6 month mark.

It is depressing.

What advice do you have to keep it going?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some of us from this site have started a LTR forum. Click on my signature link to find it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Just an FYI, most relationships that have a high probability of failure will fail by the six month mark. Don't take it personally, it happens to everyone.
 
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