Serious Advice Needed

[Sp1kez]

This is the story shortened:

1) GF of a year breaks up w/ me
2) I try to get back with her about 3 times to no avail, a month goes by
3) I find new girl (HB9 gets hit on and asked out every hour)
4) Go out with HB9 and sleep with her
5) HB9 says she has strong feelings for me
6) After a few days of spending time with HB9 she literally asks me why I havent asked her out and pretty much she asks me out, I say OK
7) Ex GF finds out about this and is devastated
8) HB9 hates ex-gf and wishes I dont talk to her anymore
9) Couple weeks go by and I do not have any feelings for HB9, Im not happy, I talk to ex-gf and she says she regrets not taking me back
10) Break up with HB9, sleep couple times with ex-gf and tell her I want her back, she says she wotn get back with me until I get tested for STDs and results come back negative, I say fine. Appointment is not until a few more days so right now Im trying to spend time with ex-gf but she does not answer calls.
11) HB9 is literally begging me to go back with her, and although she is hot there are to many things that I dont like about her (3 months ago she had a daughter with her BF of 2years and it died after 3 days of being alive so she always talks about it, she smokes-that is a major turn off for me, she has been with more guys than I can count with my two hands and gets hit on and asked out ALL THE FUKING TIME (not her fault tho but I dont appreciate this) I wasnt happy when I was with her although the sex was great.


So right now Im torn between forgetting about my ex which I love more than anything and getting with HB9 for good, or waiting until my STD test and if Im clean HOPE that my ex will get back with me (add to this the fact that shes thinking about moving out of state, she started thinking this after we broke up, and now seems like shes not sure if she wants to leave or stay...so I would regret telling HB9 NO and then finding out ex is leaving for real or says no even if im clean)


This is my dilemma and I hope some of you with experience can guide me in the right direction.

PS: Sry, it came out longer than what I thought

 

[Vypros]

Wow man....just....wow. lol

My advice?

Forget about BOTH of them. You're going to find that when your STD test comes back negative your ex-gf is going to be NOWHERE to be found. She wants what she can't have, and you keep running back to her everytime she barks.

 

[kreuz]

Wow man....just....wow. lol

My advice?

Forget about BOTH of them. You're going to find that when your STD test comes back negative your ex-gf is going to be NOWHERE to be found. She wants what she can't have, and you keep running back to her everytime she barks.

Vypros speaks the truth on this. What you described is a typical woman power play. Ex's always want their ex-s.o.'s when someone else has them, then they do everything in their power to steal you back. When they get you back, guess what.... the same old crap comes back and you break up again.

Anyways, in the game of a DJ, stay away from chicks who have had kids (especially ones with dead kids), and stay away from the bow-legged women. It saves you clinic visits (from stds, from 'surprise pregnancies', and various other habits of lose women).

Keep your head up, stay confident, and get a change of scenery :woo:

 

[WC2]

Don't let women pull your life apart. Do your own thing. When you find a woman that will support your life, as opposed to making it a living hell, then go for it. Until then, stay away from any woman who doesn't make you happy.

 

[MacAvoy]

I wouldn't even tell her the test results. If she wants you back, she has to take you unconditionally. She was the one who said she wanted you back and once you came back, she pulled the same trick, taking the power.

If you want any hope of anything long term, you have to take the power. The relationship has to be on your terms. You have to be the man and take charge.

Stop being a pvssy and calling to spend time with her. Did you notice that she only wanted you when you didn't want her. So if you want her, you have to let her do the chasing.

I would start looking for new plates to spin & have her chase you. Otherwise your on the road to brokenheartville.

 

[Sp1kez]

I decided to take control of the situation and ended everything with HB9.

I also told ex-gf that I need to know if she wants to be with me, TONIGHT (the test is tomorrow morning).


Everything is set and I jsut have to wait, but what do I do if she pulls BS and does not give an answer or answer at all?

 

[nonchalant]

you didn't take control of sh1t. sounds like you are whupped on your ex. watch her change back to a biatch once she finds out the hb9 is no longer in the picture.

 

[Sp1kez]

Oh man, the situation changed once again.....from lose-lose to win-win

HB9 just called me and basically told me we could be **** buddies, I can tell she is using sex as bait to get me back.

So it does not matter what ex-gf says now since I will be getting ***** either way, and if I do things right I can be single and still **** both of them

 

[Vypros]

Oh man, the situation changed once again.....from lose-lose to win-win

HB9 just called me and basically told me we could be **** buddies, I can tell she is using sex as bait to get me back.

So it does not matter what ex-gf says now since I will be getting ***** either way, and if I do things right I can be single and still **** both of them

Ah, it's a wonderful thing being led around by your penis, isn't it? lol

 

[Sp1kez]

Well if that was the case I'd have stayed with HB9 to begin with, but I love my ex......It's just that if I can have sex with some1 else then not being with her is not going to hurt as much



PS: And as I predicted , the ex is not answering the call, she is taking the ***** way out of it, this is what i had in mind of telling her "Listen I need to get on with my life and I need to know if you are going to be a part of it or a memory of it"

This pisses me off because she is being inmature about the situation, instead of talking she decides to ignore it. I will show up at her place tomorrow and give her the choice, she takes me back, good, she doesn't, I walk away with my head up high

 

[Vypros]

This pisses me off because she is being inmature about the situation,

She is being immature? lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

I vote for HB9. The gf will just dump you again.

 

[Sp1kez]

Well i wish I had posted this b4 breaking up with HB9 and tryign to get back with the ex....this would have shown me that she just wanetd me because somebody else had me.....

So after the ex said she didnt want to be with me, I went over to HB9s palce and fcked the sht out of her...ahh good times