The girl I was involved with 18 months ago is a serial flaker/canceller/c0cktease and probably attention wh0re. She gave me head on our 1st date and flaked several times for our 2nd date until she finally met up and we fooled around, no sex tho. I finally got fed up of her flaking and lost my temper sending her some long text saying I was fed up of her cancelling. Anyway I realised I f'd up and kept calling her trying to make amends. She changed her number cos of me. I went away for ayear then msg'd her on facebook apologising for hounding her like a crazy man and that I've changed. After back and forths on facebook we finally talked agin the other day and were suppose to meet today. Surprise surprise she flakes sending me some text saying she only saw my text 15mins ago when I know it delivered 6 hours ago. Anyway I call her suggesting to meet an hour later cos I was already in her area studying and she gives me some BS that her cousins coming to see her cos she ade plans cos she only saw my text 15mins ago and that maybe her
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serial flaker/canceller/c0cktease
- Thread starter big weezy
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
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Phone was broken. I was annoyed and I didn't want to listen to her BS anymore so was like 'yeah yeah ok see u' is that likely to demonstrate to her I haven't changed cos I was annoyed? The thing is physically this girl can't resist me in person she's so dirty that whenever we meet something freaky happens. She's down for sex anywhere any time. I know if I just get her out in person I'll get some sort of action. Do u think her flaking was a test to see if I was still the same crazy angry guy from last year and have I failed by sounding annoyed?
why do you want to see her if she flakes? Get over it! Your looking desperate, scaring her off. No one is worth using this much of your own time. If she doesnt want to see you, see doesnt want to see you, and to help you get over her, go to any event. Youll see like at least 10-50 hott chicks and realize that pondering over one girl is really pointless.
If you know she's a serial flaker/canceller/c0coktease.....why the hell are you here asking sosuave for help? You should know that you NEXT these clowns & never look back.
You don't text her because you're giving he validation. You don't hound her down because that is AFC behaviour that only makes you look like a desperate clown.
If she changed her number because of you, why is she still on your mind? Its clear she wants NOTHING to do with you.
Also you contradict yourself saying she can't resist you in person, she's down for sex anywhere, anytime & if you get her in person you'll get action yet on the 2nd date you didn't bang her........*sigh*
Forget this girl, learn from your sorry mistakes & move on.
You don't text her because you're giving he validation. You don't hound her down because that is AFC behaviour that only makes you look like a desperate clown.
If she changed her number because of you, why is she still on your mind? Its clear she wants NOTHING to do with you.
Also you contradict yourself saying she can't resist you in person, she's down for sex anywhere, anytime & if you get her in person you'll get action yet on the 2nd date you didn't bang her........*sigh*
Forget this girl, learn from your sorry mistakes & move on.
Trust me, I know I can get her into bed next time I get her in person. I've been sarging so much these past weeks but all I get are flaeky girls who either don't reply to my calls/texts or flake on dates or meetr on dates and it goes nowhere that it seems easier in my mind getting her into bed knowung right now I have no options, not for want of trying but just I have none and want to get laid soon. I think she was testing me to see if I was still the same angry guy but I couldn't not act annoyed with her BS excuse without being angry, that's why I was just happy to get off the phone with her.
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Sex, pvssy & women have become a big part of your life, it is making you desperate & women pick up on this.big weezy said:Trust me, I know I can get her into bed next time I get her in person. I've been sarging so much these past weeks but all I get are flaeky girls who either don't reply to my calls/texts or flake on dates or meetr on dates and it goes nowhere that it seems easier in my mind getting her into bed knowung right now I have no options, not for want of trying but just I have none and want to get laid soon. I think she was testing me to see if I was still the same angry guy but I couldn't not act annoyed with her BS excuse without being angry, that's why I was just happy to get off the phone with her.
I think you need to focus more on a hobby, something that makes you happy or content. Sometimes you need to take sometime away from the game, re-evaluate yourself & your life & after you're comfortable without getting laid & you have that calm you can go back to sarging.
Like I said before, forget this girl, she's probably being porked by some other dude. As for all the other flakes let em fall to the ground melt for all you care.