"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Seperated women

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leeman67 said:
She has told me no more then that He was lying to her for years and he left her. She lives in the home with her two children. Here is the additonal drama.


She currently is seeing a guy, but wants out of the relationship. too possesive. Wants to know where she is 24/7. She has thrown several hints that she is interested .

To this point, I have just kepted it at a friendship level. We never run out of things to talk about. I know. Im a trouble magnet... LOL

RUN. Put your track shoes on and RUN as fast as you can.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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persistent exaction said:
RUN. Put your track shoes on and RUN as fast as you can.


Ditto. :rockon:
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Also, when I was 20 I dated a 27 year old seperated woman. She was still mooching off her husband, living in his house! I was a HUGE AFC at this point in my life.

The divorce was supposedly almost final. She even brought me into their house and introduced me to her husband! He was an Ex-Marine, could have broke me in half. But he seemed cool with it. Then, we went and banged upstairs while he was sitting downstairs watching TV.

I was too young to realize what I was doing was insane and stupid. I don't even think I realized they were technically still married and "seperated" doesn't mean anything.

I still can't believe I did that. I can't believe SHE did that to her poor ex husband. What a b!tch, and I played along.
When my ex cheated I threw her out on her azz. I made her go live with him, kind of like your dad making you smoke the whole pack after getting caught with one cigarette. I didn't want her anymore.

This marine was an AFC to let her stay even one extra day. But allowing her to fvck other guys?

My only thought is that this was some kind of fantasy, he wanted to hear his wife get fvcked by some other guy. Or some kind of weird agreement. I can't believe he'd let her run around like that otherwise.
 
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