"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Separating groups of girls: seeking advice on tactics

d0g

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Hey guys,

Could you suggest some advice for how to proceed in the following situation?

I met a group of 3 girls at an otherwise empty busstop, and struck up a conversation with them. When the bus arrived 5 minutes later, we all got on, and I kept chatting with them. I only had about 5 minutes on the bus too, and my stop was before theirs. It was a night bus, and no one else was on the bus besides us and the driver.

I failed to either get any of their numbers, or to deliver my number to them. I couldn't think of any reasonable way to do it: it seems like it would be silly to ask for all three of their numbers, and likewise it seemed silly to give my number to all three of them.

What should I have done? Just asked one of the girls for her number? Just given one of the girls my number? In these cases, which girl? (The best-, middle- or worst-looking one?)

Thanks,

d0g
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thevilittletroll

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might not be a bad idea to ask for facebook. if they are all friends, they're probably friends on facebook too. then you can private message each one individually and ask for phone numbers.
 

Who Dares Win

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Do as vittletroll suggested but very important dont forget to fake interest in all of them, dont make the mistake of light your eyes when you get the facebook details of the girls you like while just bother writing when you get the ones of the fat girl.

You have no idea how powerful a butthurt fat girl could be for such minimal thing and how much effort she can put in sabotaging your plans with her cute friend, if those fat girls would put in dieting half the effort they put in managing their ego, they would all be models.
 
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