"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SEPARATE SECTION FOR JOURNALS

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Have a separate section for any journals including and/or Bootcamp journals.

Why ?



1. Those who are looking for comments or to give/ share their journals have a unified place for members to met others who are also wanting to give/get bootcamp journal advice. Kinda of "help each other out" using journals.

2. It would be more organized ; There are bootcamp journals in TIPS, Anything Else, General Discussion.. They all over hehe

3. It would encourage people to try bootcamp usin the journal , by having them physical type a journal on line it would get them more motivated to try it for themselves.




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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i think thats a great idea. ive been wanting to start a journal for a while now, but i dont want to post it in general discussion.
 
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not talking about you specifically Centaurion, I think that some people don't want to post their journals in general discussion basically because they want to avoid brass/rude comments .. . . they want to communicate with others who are doing bootcamp or looking to be more constructive etc..alright going to sleep now later btw , what say thou mods ?
 
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*looks to see no one is around* "Yo... Yeah you! Get over here! Got a hot tip for you. See theres this other site that I got linked in my sig its to Eternal's site and it has a journal section but just don't tell anyone its a secret. Shhh..."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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comic_relief, thanks for the links. I was looking for a journal section here, but those links would do just fine.
 
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Originally posted by diablo
I'd be for it. Perhaps one of the 'secret' forums could be used...
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It would be good on sosuave.com because of the higher traffic means more responses...

BTW, Diablo are you the man in charge here?, just curious to know what the status of this section is thanks!
 
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Originally posted by KnightRyder
BTW, Diablo are you the man in charge here?, just curious to know what the status of this section is thanks!
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haha yeah right, diablo is just some 21 year old loser who has nothing better to do then troll SS. :p

Just kidding, I dunno perhaps this site does need some changes...
 
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Originally posted by KnightRyder
BTW, Diablo are you the man in charge here?, just curious to know what the status of this section is thanks!
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I'm just a lowly mod, the guy you'd want to see is Allen.

Originally posted by Vincent
haha yeah right, diablo is just some 21 year old loser who has nothing better to do then troll SS. :p
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So much for you keeping secrets! :eek:
 
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