Sent her txt msg meant for mate!

[larkan]

Last night, I sent my girlfriend a text message that I meant to send my mate. It involved saying that I reckon I would get with her next weekend.

She was really annoyed, and replied that the relationship was over. I managed to salvage it through text and a couple of rejected calls. However, I still feel this is too nice guy. She said she was angry and that we will talk today. I plan to call her, but I also plan to delay the call as well.

I do really like this girl, but is it too late? Should I just not bother and break up?

Interest level was really quite high previous to this idiotic mistake...

 

[stalluproar]

What was the whole message?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

How long have you been seeing her?

Also, it'd be nice to know exactly what the text message said.

Give me those, and I can give you a real answer.


If this is a new thing, then chances are that she doesn't know you enough, and now you've blown it. She thinks you're after one thing.

If there's some trust built up, then there's a chance that you can salvage this. Apologize, and explain yourself. this is one of those moments where being a bit "AFC" (telling her more than you should) might actually help.



The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[larkan]

"Hey 'insert mates name here' didn't get to see her this weekend. Next weekend when I've got my license going to get her over and sit back for a movie. ***** time!"

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Originally posted by larkan
"Hey 'insert mates name here' didn't get to see her this weekend. Next weekend when I've got my license going to get her over and sit back for a movie. ***** time!"

hahahahaha


oh sh!t.... that's just bad, man.. and she saw this? This is straight out of some teen flick, American pie style.


You're pretty fvcked, I gotta say.


most women hate that word, too... I'm assuming it was "pvssy"?



The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[larkan]

Btw, we're both in school.

Yep, that's the one word... lol.
I know, I've thought the same thing.

Yeah, there is a bit of trust, this is after 3 dates, and it was me talking about the 4th.

I was thinking of saying that I was being an immature ****head and calling a girl a *****, meaing that it was 'girl time'. Then go on a big speel about how I didn't mean sex (cause I haven't had it yet, neither she) and that obviously, after three dates it would be too soon. Also speel bout how I want it to be all special?

Guess u can almost call me Jim lol
Story and a half but.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

I was thinking of saying that I was being an immature ****head and calling a girl a *****, meaing that it was 'girl time'. Then go on a big speel about how I didn't mean sex (cause I haven't had it yet, neither she) and that obviously, after three dates it would be too soon. Also speel bout how I want it to be all special?

she will see right through that.

Women know better.


Don't Do IT!!!!!!

 

[larkan]

Well, what do I do then...?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

the only thing that comes to mind right now would be to apologize.

Tell her you weren't really serious. You were just trying to put on a front for your friend (or something like that) . Just say that it isn't all you're interested in and then you might be able to turn it around.

Apologize, but don't dwell.

If she accpets, fine. If she doesn't and holds it against you, count your losses and walk away

 

[larkan]

The guy i was sending the message to is a fag too, I'm trying to think how I could work that in...

The only communication after a reply txt saying how cut she was was another text which reads as follows:

"im not upset, just disappointed cause i dont think i'm attracted to you like i was after readin that. can i talk to ya later, i need to sleep"

 

[4afe]

I would call her and ask "did you get my message? I thought I sent it to my mate on accident." If she aint cool with it, cut your loss, and look for another girl (theres plenty)