"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sent A Get Well Card

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I heard my neighbor up the street was involved in an accident back in the summer he has some kind head injury where he stutters when he gets excited. He was rear ended while at a red light and hasn't worked since.

I haven't been able to go see him in person to give my support but decided to send him a get well card telling him I hope he makes a full recovery.

I don't really know why this should even be asked because I already put it in the mailbox and just wondered do men send cards to friends neighbors whom they have respect for and are basically friends as well.

Am I girly for sending him a get well card? He is also married and have known him for over 28 years.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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Have never been in that situation but if I'd known the guy for that long I would have made time to go see him in person. Even calling is better than a card IMO. Why not go see him now before he gets the card?
 
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I have tried both several times since I just heard about this recently and get no answer from the phone nor is anyone home when I stopped by but hear he is doing physical therapy 3 times a week. I guess it's timing on my part but decided on the card for now and sure I will eventually go see him but just to busy right now.

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