"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I watch the pornos and i always see any guy touch his penis head like theres no problem but for some reason i get a stingy sort of feeling when i touch it. Its not pain but just a weird uncomfortable feeling.

Considering that im gona get some action soon, im worried i will feel quite uncomfortable during sex. (it will be my first time). I might even have to go to lengths to NOT have sex until this is sorted out coz i can just imagine my penis head touching the inside of the pu$$y and me not enjoying it at all.

Has anyone got/had the same problem and what can i do about it? Is there some kind of lube i can use or something to make it less sensitive?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's probably nothing that can't be sorted.

Pluck up the courage to see the Doc. The mental relief you will get far outways the worry of not knowing what's going on.

Good Luck.
 

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na i havent. it looks like i should go then. ill make an appointment soon but damn i just cant imagine getting my **** out to a doctor :eek:
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Originally posted by jason86
na i havent. it looks like i should go then. ill make an appointment soon but damn i just cant imagine getting my **** out to a doctor :eek:

Man up.. it's not like their gonna tell anyone. I've had to do it before.

How do you think the doc's feel about touching someones penis? They may be uncomfortable too, unless their gay. Just go do it and see whats wrong. :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I never thought about the Doc being gay, he might try to stick his finger up your arse at the same time.

Trouble is you might get a hard on, and then thinks you are gay too. What if he wants you to lie down on the couch face down?

Jeez better off with a sore d1ck than a sore ass.
 

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Originally posted by jason86
na i havent. it looks like i should go then. ill make an appointment soon but damn i just cant imagine getting my **** out to a doctor :eek:
Get over it. A doctor is used to seeing such things - unlike the posts stating the contrary, he's not going to feel uncomfortable making sure that your equipment isn't having problems. If anything, he'll listen to what you have to say, then if he needs to, he'll take a look at it - and if he can't determine the problem, you'll be referred to a specialist. Sure, if you whipped it out and showed the doc what you've got in your pants when you saw him out at the grocery store, it would be weird for both of you. In a professional medical setting, though, it seems a bit childish. He's a doctor, you have a problem. Ergo, he fixes it.
 

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na i havent. it looks like i should go then. ill make an appointment soon but damn i just cant imagine getting my **** out to a doctor
have you guys never been to physicals?

*look left and cough.*
 

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
have you guys never been to physicals?

*look left and cough.*
hahaha, thats why I hate physicals. Not so comfortable with someone I dont really know grabin down there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Circumsized guys are less sensitive because their glands (head) have been rubbing against the fabric of their pants for years, whereas uncircumsized guys have forskin covering the head all the time. If you pull it back when you take a piss and pull it back to wash it in the shower, it shouldn't be THAT sensitive. If it's just a little discomfort, it really shouldn't a big deal in having sex, if anything, the wetness will relieve that.
 

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yea just pull the skin back as much as you can and if you want just sit there and rub your head for a while so its not too sensitive...i had the same problem back when i was like 12 years old but i started early pulling my skin back really often and by the time i was 13 it was all good.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
COME ON GUYS stop using nlp on the fellow.
Sorry, can't help it. One time I couldn't bring myself to SHUT THE FUKK UP and I decided to NLP myself into using NLP subcosciously. :) ;)
 
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