"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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senior week?

coffin

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iight ive been thinkin of goin down to ocean city for a night on senior week. i cant go all week cuz of work issues but i still wanted to go down for a night. this girl ive been talkin to keeps sayin if i go down i better call her and hang with her or she will be pissed off. i dont think takin a 3 hour drive to see a girl is a real good idea specially since she has flaked out on me 1 time all ready when she said if i was doin somethin to call ehr cuz she didnt have plans. do you think i should go down? and should i hit her up if i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you going down for your own pleasure or are you going in hopes of seeing/laying this girl?

I think the answer is the latter. If you plan on going to see her, you need to make it clear to her that you are coming and that you WANT to see her, otherwise, you are setting yourself up for failure if you get there and don't get to see her. If that is the ONLY reason you are going then it's a wasted trip.

If you are going down for yourself, then once you get there, let her know you are in town and see what happens.

Good Luck
 

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yea i see wat you mean man if i do go i think ima call up other friends and then when i get there tell her im chillin out and that she should meet up.
 

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new update talked to a friend and he said if i can get 200 bucks to cover some of the rent i can stay the week. thinkin of doin that and then if i call her up it wont be like i was goin 3 hours outa my way to see her
 
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