"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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senior week?

coffin

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iight ive been thinkin of goin down to ocean city for a night on senior week. i cant go all week cuz of work issues but i still wanted to go down for a night. this girl ive been talkin to keeps sayin if i go down i better call her and hang with her or she will be pissed off. i dont think takin a 3 hour drive to see a girl is a real good idea specially since she has flaked out on me 1 time all ready when she said if i was doin somethin to call ehr cuz she didnt have plans. do you think i should go down? and should i hit her up if i do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are you going down for your own pleasure or are you going in hopes of seeing/laying this girl?

I think the answer is the latter. If you plan on going to see her, you need to make it clear to her that you are coming and that you WANT to see her, otherwise, you are setting yourself up for failure if you get there and don't get to see her. If that is the ONLY reason you are going then it's a wasted trip.

If you are going down for yourself, then once you get there, let her know you are in town and see what happens.

Good Luck
 

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yea i see wat you mean man if i do go i think ima call up other friends and then when i get there tell her im chillin out and that she should meet up.
 

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new update talked to a friend and he said if i can get 200 bucks to cover some of the rent i can stay the week. thinkin of doin that and then if i call her up it wont be like i was goin 3 hours outa my way to see her
 
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