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Sending reminder texts

Konada

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How advisable would it be to send such texts a day before the date?

I'm planning to go with 'See you at 8pm tomorrow.'

Is it advisable or will it give her an avenue to flake out?
 

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Jariel

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I always text to confirm, something like "Hey <name>, we still cool for tomorrow - <venue> at 8pm?"

I think many guys here are way too defensive and uptight when it comes to texting and confirming dates. It just reassures her you're still on and she can let you know the same thing so nobody ends up being stood up.

In this day and age, there's no excuse not to text or call to confirm and it only takes a matter of seconds, so if she hears nothing from you she'll probably assume you lost interest.

As for this avenue to flake out. Put it this way, if she's not interested it doesn't matter whether you confirm or not, she won't turn up. If she is interested, you've got nothing to worry about.
 

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Yes, that is one of the only times you should reliably text (or email) her. You are the man. It is her option to decline but you will not waver on this date.
 

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(double post - please remove).
 
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Johnnyventana

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I never do. And you know what? They then do! It's predictable and funny.

If you originally said X time and X place. No need to re-confirm.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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