"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sending a postcard

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A girl I'm texting told me about how her ex was an idiot because he promised he'd send her a postcard but he never did, so I told her what if we send to each other postcards, just once and for fun, and she was excited by the idea.

Now, I know that was a bad move. It's not like I'm going to write a love letter and I don't really care about losing this chick, since chances are we're not gonna see each other for a while, but I wonder what kind of stuff would you write to keep her thinking, or impress her in a DJ way, if this is even possible in this situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just don't do it. Or send a postcard with a sexual joke.

I wouldn't send one even if i've promised in the heat of the moment, it is just a beta move.
 
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I know that last guy didn't think of you much, he promised communication, but didn't stay in touch. Me, I keep my word, what I say you can trust.
So when you get this card, just know this much
You're heavy on my mind, I think I've got a crush


That was off the top of my head foreal lol. If she likes you it should make her smile
 
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Spin plates.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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