"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i'm a sophomore and im not sure who i want to take to the semi. i wanted to take this girl i really liked last year but theres been to many oppurtunities that ive screwed up with her and when it comes to her i have no confidence (Just her for some weird reason) so i really dont even wana think about going for her even though i would love to + she jus got out of a relationship.....anyways BACK to the point. there are so many hb's in my school i need some tips on pickin 1 out. should i go for an upper classmen? a freshmen? 1 in my grade?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've been in your situation many many many times. If I were you I'd go with a girl that I talk to somewhat and are somewhat aquainted with. YOu don't want a girl that your already 100% friends only with. But you also don't want your first real time talking to her being at one of these semis which are a pretty big deal. Go for a girl in your grade or below unless theres an upperclassmen you kinda know well..... good luck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by arodinpinstripes
I've been in your situation many many many times. If I were you I'd go with a girl that I talk to somewhat and are somewhat aquainted with. YOu don't want a girl that your already 100% friends only with. But you also don't want your first real time talking to her being at one of these semis which are a pretty big deal. Go for a girl in your grade or below unless theres an upperclassmen you kinda know well..... good luck
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its not as big of a deal as i made it.....i talk to girls all the time with no issues.. its not like i dont know any girls....theres 800 kids in my school im pretty aquainted with the girls in my grade or juniors
 
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