"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi I am a 16 year old freshman who has one problem with women and pretty much does everything else right on or so I think. But the problem is a big whopper.

I came to this site 2 years ago, I was a loser. I read the front page articles and I changed alot. I was more confident talked to hot girls more. Then the next year I became even more confident and started acting sure of myself. Know I am a freshman I still havent gotten any action. Sure I might play around with some of the most beautfil girls in school grabbing there ass getting back rubs from them lauging jokingect but I still havent gotten any farther then that. I dont no what to do.

Know back to me. Everyone respects me even upper classmen I am failry good looking.People in my grade look up to me. I play football and run track, I went from 110 lbs to 157 since last year so I am pretty built.

I cant seem to get any farther then playfully touching girls it doesnt help that every hot girl I come in contact with is a somphore or higher. What should I do to brake that barrier of being in a lower grade?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How in hell are you a frosh at 16?
 

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The Shocker said:
How in hell are you a frosh at 16?
most useless reply ever?


bro, you gota take risks. you're taking girls too simply, like everything else in life. there needs to be RISKS. be prepared to scare off some girls, be prepared to have girls addicted to you. you need to take risks to get anywhere.

escalate your playful touching, lower grade will either affect you or it doesn't (some girls will just not date a younger guy). anyways, what's wrong with your freshman girls?
 

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DR Chillz said:
Hi I am a 16 year old freshman who has one problem with women and pretty much does everything else right on or so I think. But the problem is a big whopper.

I came to this site 2 years ago, I was a loser. I read the front page articles and I changed alot. I was more confident talked to hot girls more. Then the next year I became even more confident and started acting sure of myself. Know I am a freshman I still havent gotten any action. Sure I might play around with some of the most beautfil girls in school grabbing there ass getting back rubs from them lauging jokingect but I still havent gotten any farther then that. I dont no what to do.

Know back to me. Everyone respects me even upper classmen I am failry good looking.People in my grade look up to me. I play football and run track, I went from 110 lbs to 157 since last year so I am pretty built.

I cant seem to get any farther then playfully touching girls it doesnt help that every hot girl I come in contact with is a somphore or higher. What should I do to brake that barrier of being in a lower grade?
*Wags finger at The Shocker* Judging by the two mispellings of know/now, I take it that you are originally from another country. Either way, age gives you an amazing advantage. I'm a senior, and I've had my share of sophies and freshies hitting on me. The crux I'm having right now is high standards. All the girls I want to bust a move with are taken, and believe me I'm trying to steal and get burned out by natural game playas and ****-blocks *still lacks anti-cb strategy*

Unfortunately, my advice is just as useless as The Shocker's: I've been AFC till about five weeks ago (started using Kino and C and F) and I'm a senior with status (accepted in all social groups). All I can tell you is that the Freshies will be in the palm of your hand because you're older so you can drive sooner and take initiative faster. In college, this will allow you even more fun (beer and the like earlier). What you're dealing with now is the bane of high standards. Yet I'm sure we both will be able to fill the gap between standards and DJ ability and then the games shall really begin.
 

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The Shocker said:
How in hell are you a frosh at 16?
I just turned 16

I will start my senior at 18 thats not highly uncommon

And no I am not from another country.

Anyways I think posting at this site will me help me push myself becuase I will have this stuff drilled into my head.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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