"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SargeMaximus

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Ok here’s one I use. I have noticed I am more calm but also have that testosterone edge which I love. With ashwagandha I get palpitations but not this. So it’s better for me.

I read on the package not to use for extended periods so I am using it when I need an edge but not every day.
It’s called Panax Ginseng
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I make my own Kefir. It's cheap guys I bought the grains online. Afterwards just feed them milk.

It's cheaper than buying store bought which isn't as good
 

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I make my own Kefir. It's cheap guys I bought the grains online. Afterwards just feed them milk.

It's cheaper than buying store bought which isn't as good
I used to do that too but they grew so fast and before I knew it I couldn’t keep up with the growth. Having to strain the grains every day got too time consuming
 

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I used to do that too but they grew so fast and before I knew it I couldn’t keep up with the growth. Having to strain the grains every day got too time consuming
I know what you mean. I always have 2 jars going - this allows me to fill up a yogurt container in a few days.

You can give away the extra's or simply just eat them --- that's a nice probiotic boost.

I sacrificed a bunch of them the past two days. The kefir started culturing in a mere couple of hours and I really didn't want to have to start running the grocery store to buy a gallon of milk everyday
 

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I know what you mean. I always have 2 jars going - this allows me to fill up a yogurt container in a few days.

You can give away the extra's or simply just eat them --- that's a nice probiotic boost.

I sacrificed a bunch of them the past two days. The kefir started culturing in a mere couple of hours and I really didn't want to have to start running the grocery store to buy a gallon of milk everyday
Yeah man I hear that. At one point my kefir grains had grown to the size of those large marbles
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lift weights, no soy, no processed foods.
 
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