Well, the thing is I'm here not because I want to get girls. In the beginning I did have that idea. But after reading a lot of stuff being posted here, I realized that it isn't important anymore. I've said before that I can live my life without girls. Having a girl is a bonus, nothing more. It's like having a Ferrari. It's damn nice to have one but I can still live without one.
It's extremely difficult to put yourself first and at the same time want women so badly. I've learned this from experience. The whole idea behind an AFC is putting the women first before themselves. I doubt thinking about yourself is as important to you compared to thinking about women.
It's obvious when girls are clearly the objective. They clearly determine the means here. It is because of them that you're thinking about focusing on seduction methods. It is because of them that you question self-improvement.
Let me say though that it is perfectly up to you to decide how you want to go about getting girls. There is no right or wrong way. If you decide that they are so important then so be it. Just don't be a hypocrite and insult AFCs because they also feel that girls are so important.