"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Self-Hypnosis

Lost

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I just tried this self hypnosis thing that i found from an article on sosuave ( http://www.sosuave.com/articles/phobia.htm ) and hers the actual one on the self hypnosis ( http://www.remingtonpublications.com/confidence_through_self-hypnosis.htm )
Has anyone tried this?
I just tried it and i had some questions....
About the breathing thru ur noise and out ur mouth.. u keep ur mouth closed when ur breathin through your noise right?
Also do u do that special breathing the entire time? id forget about it cuz i was concentrating on the **** so much.
Also it was kinda weird to try to feel my self submerging in a tub ( like that body part getting warmer).. how do i know im doing this right?
Also are u supposed to say those certain things that it says to say outloud.. like "I am confident around women" ? and doesnt it matter which term u use(ie. women or girls)?
Should u try to do a whole convo? i mean you may approach in ur mind confidently but ur convo might suck.. so wouldnt that be bad for u...LOL?
Anyways if anyone has done this pls answer my questions, itl be greatly appreciated, thx.
btw my email is [email protected] and my AIM sn is Refrusloi as well...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, you breath through your nose and you concetrate on your breathing.


You start off with 4-sec inspiration and 6-sec expiration. Do this in the beginning until you get use to it that you don't even have to count.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
how bout the other questions?

It takes time and practice to know if you're doing it right.


Doing the convo in your head is more of the NLP approach. Just keep doing the affirmation. "Women or girls"? It depends on what your goal is. So it could be how to control your emotions or just controlling your pain.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I looked through that site and now i have a question. Would it be safe to play a tape of positive affirmations while in the hypnosis or would it A have no effect or B **** me up big time?
 

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Well, for hypnosis to fully work you have to have faith.

If you dont know wtf you are doing and have so much doubt and confusion then I wouldnt recommend trying it out.
 

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I sent an email to the man who wrote the article hers what i got back

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Hello Kalen!

1. You'll know because you experience the session as though you're right there. The emotions, colors, experiences, etc., will all seem very "real", just as though you're looking out of your own eyes, hearing with your own ears, etc. This is a complete recreation of the events you want to occur.

But, with that said, it's not absolutely necessary to have this level of detail! In fact, professional hypnotists rarely achieve it either! Simply by running the events through your mind a number of times will program it as you want.

2. This is done one count per breath, with the final one on "ready".

3. For some people the tape helps. Further, you can listen to it any time you want. Actively guiding your own imagery however, is an even better choice than a tape. It's your active (rather than passive) involvement that makes the difference.

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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World"



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Date: Monday, May 26, 2003
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Question:

Hello, My name is Kalen Berry. I am a regular to Sosuave.com and the Dj discussion forums. I found out about your Self hypnosis technique here http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28865

I was wondering if you could answer a few questions about this technique for me.

1. how do you know when you do it right.
2. Im a little confused by what you mean by "When you get the rhythm of this count backwards from 5 to 0 with each breath. Imagine yourself slipping downwards very comfortably and calmly. When you hit 0, just say to yourself, "ready"."
Is this done repetitivly on each breath or done once one number per complete breath.
3. Would it be of any benifit to make a tape of the things i want to do better at to make a tape with my personal affirmations on it and enter the hypnotic state while listining to the tape to increase confidence?

Thank you for your time and any help you may be able to provide
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eamil me with any questions. i am an expert on the subject and have practiced meditation and self-hypnosis for a long time to try to ease the pain of my past medical problems. email me at [email protected]
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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