Self-esteem help

[djthiago1]

Ever since i broke up about 3 weeks ago i've been having serious anxiety and low-esteem, i don't necessarily miss the girl (mentally ill), but i miss being in a relationship. I've been wondering, does banging random girls help? I should i just continue dating normally?

 

[user43770]

Sex with new women is always good. After a break-up, it's good for the ego, just to prove to yourself that you still can.

There's no real cure for your ills, though. You're missing the companionship, which is natural and all of us go through it. Even if you jump right into another relationship, you'll still think about her. Best to date around.

Time heals all wounds, my friend. And there's something beautiful about finally getting over an ex. One day, all of a sudden, it's like you walk out of the prison gates into a world ripe for the taking. You feel like a new man.

 

[Bobby K]

Ever since i broke up about 3 weeks ago i've been having serious anxiety and low-esteem, i don't necessarily miss the girl (mentally ill), but i miss being in a relationship. I've been wondering, does banging random girls help? I should i just continue dating normally?

I've never been in a super serious relationship so I may not give the best advice. Although everybody has gone through a period in which they don't feel good about themselves because of a relaitonship going sour. I cope best by finding some rebound chicks; whether it is to hook up, go on dates or just for some company. Just actively seek female interactions to keep your head in the game. Don't overthink dude, every one goes through these type of things and it's not the end of the world. Your not going to feel the same level of compassion for these girls but it definitely helps. Also, your putting a lot of emphasis on the "relationship" because that label gave you this idea of being wanted. Never rely on someone else for that satisfaction. It sucks, I know, but your beating yourself up for something that won't affect you a year from now. Time heals everything.

 

[papa]

Well last year I had a seriously low self esteem ( on the point of depression! ). What I have noticed is having a "**** it" attitude helps. Secondly from year I started improving myself. Joined Gym, Yoga, started learning guitar ( always wanted to ), trying my hands on business and finding ways to come up with the funding to become a pilot (dream job!). It's helping so far

 

[sosousage]

Ever since i broke up about 3 weeks ago i've been having serious anxiety and low-esteem, i don't necessarily miss the girl (mentally ill), but i miss being in a relationship. I've been wondering, does banging random girls help? I should i just continue dating normally?

i get a lot of confidence from banging girls especially if you bang two and they dont know about each other

 

[Infern0]

You are going to get a load of BS advice in here but the cure for low self esteem isnt actually to go l"bang a bunch of chicks"

Thats ego stuff

 

[Bobby K]

You are going to get a load of BS advice in here but the cure for low self esteem isnt actually to go l"bang a bunch of chicks"

Thats ego stuff

Why wouldn't success with women increase you self esteem ? Yeah it feeds the ego no doubt, but most guys with big egos don't really have self esteem issues.