"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Self Depreciation
- Thread starter Rollo Tomassi
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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A few thoughts:
Self depreciation manifested in verbal form is called SELF DEPRICATION.
And self deprication is actually a way of ignorantly NEG HITTING yourself.
And anyone who does this in the presence of a babe he's interested in, is in effect, guilty of committing relationship suicide.
Peace...one day.
I'm sure there are some women out there that would be partial to a man's self depreciation - perhaps the type that are after a broken wus. But for most self respecting women, I suspect it would equate to a huge turn off.
On the otherhand, how should men receive self-depreciating women? Is there more tolerance in this respect?