"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Self Consious Girlfriend

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stickboy

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Well my girlfriend is very self consious...

Her breasts are not that big.. but it really does not bother me.. but whenever I go up there she starts talking about how small they are... and it really bothers me.. I agree they are small but I still love her and I love her breasts... size doesn't matter that much to me... how can I show her that I'm telling the truth? I'm very attracted to her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, I would tell her to stop being so insecure and ask her if she really thinks I would dump her because of her small tits (don't know about you but I don't care much as long as she's something else going on for her e.g personality).

I'd be brutally honest and tell her that sure I love women with big breasts, the same way girls prefer tall guys but that doesn't matter because I like this and that about her.

(not field tested, but I'd be careful about the delivery ... you don't want to make the impression that you are lowering your standards because you are afraid of losing her)
 
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I've already told her that I love her (her personality) and that the packaging is just an extra nice surprise... she is really good looking...
 
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is she skinny? because skinny girls always have small tits; just tell her to get fat
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's a loosing battle. Your interest or perception of her breast has nothing to do with it, nor will it ever. She needs to become accepting of herself and her form and sadly, nothing you can say or do can make her see herself differently.

She felt this way about herself before your started dating her and she'll keep feeling this way until she decides to feel otherwise. You may or may not choose to stay around for that to happen.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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