"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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SoldMySoul said:
...I appreciate everyone's input and I am interested in this one, but I need to take it slow because she seems like one of those kind.
Good mindset. This one sounds like she just may have things in order. She has personality, a life outside of dating, not on the rebound and she's opening up to you in a non-complaining way. Ease into things purposely with a discerning eye and you'll do just fine.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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joekerr31

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SoldMySoul said:
But she TALKS a lot!!! I guess one thing about it is that I will find out everything I want to know about her while still being a mystery to her.

next time say to her "if you don't stop talking so much im going to have to stick my d*ck in your mouth to shut you up."
 

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Sometimes the real good ones have a lot more trouble finding guys than people think. A lot of fellows are too intimidated to have a go. their loss.
 

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How did it go Saturday Night ?
You like the Cha Cha ??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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