"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kingofnewbie

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Ahhh all the gods out there deliver me form this mess.:D .I have known this girl for a year now and didn't hook up with her till about three months ago. We started spending time a lot studying together and call each other everyday. okay, the problem is that when i ask her out she always say she doesn't know if she is going and don't end up showing up. At one point, I thought I screw up and stop calling her and moved on but she called me and started studying together again like everyday. sometimes i try not to see her everday b/c it will take away the fun in hanging out. And I know she know i like her because she said it herself. She confused me really. I thought I should ask straight if she like me or not and move on but i thought to myself i will just keep dancing till the game is over and maybe I will learn something out of it. Right now I don't know if she sees me just as friend or more than that. My gut feeling tells me that she sees me as a friend but then i am not sure really. Today she started telling me that she doesn't believe in love and ask me question like are u faithful type and all those bull ****. What does that mean? Should I dump her and move on? Should i keep her as a friend? by the way she doesn't like to be touched at all although she has been more open to some of my kino moves. her friend told me that her ex and her didn't hold hand or anything like that so i guess it can be her personality. All the DJ i really appreciat your response... just kick in some sense in to my think skull .....Peace.:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hi everyone, i'm new. With that said.

You said that when you ask her out, she ends up not showing up? The next time you ask her out do it in a way that suggest's you were going anyway and that she could come along if she wants. It could also work to your advantage if it was more of a "on the spot" type question(as in your fixing too leave and see has to decide then and there). It will take most of the bs/gp out of the situation.
Ex.Hey, i'm going to such and such and you can come along if you want. (And then give her that look like of course she wants to come along, thats obvious).


In any point in a interaction with a women if you start to get thoughts about whether or not she's into you. OF COURSE she is, and even if she's not what's thinking that gonna hurt? That form of thinking can only lead to a more playfull/fun interaction for the both of you. Also extremely interesting for her.

J.
 
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