"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ahhh all the gods out there deliver me form this mess.:D .I have known this girl for a year now and didn't hook up with her till about three months ago. We started spending time a lot studying together and call each other everyday. okay, the problem is that when i ask her out she always say she doesn't know if she is going and don't end up showing up. At one point, I thought I screw up and stop calling her and moved on but she called me and started studying together again like everyday. sometimes i try not to see her everday b/c it will take away the fun in hanging out. And I know she know i like her because she said it herself. She confused me really. I thought I should ask straight if she like me or not and move on but i thought to myself i will just keep dancing till the game is over and maybe I will learn something out of it. Right now I don't know if she sees me just as friend or more than that. My gut feeling tells me that she sees me as a friend but then i am not sure really. Today she started telling me that she doesn't believe in love and ask me question like are u faithful type and all those bull ****. What does that mean? Should I dump her and move on? Should i keep her as a friend? by the way she doesn't like to be touched at all although she has been more open to some of my kino moves. her friend told me that her ex and her didn't hold hand or anything like that so i guess it can be her personality. All the DJ i really appreciat your response... just kick in some sense in to my think skull .....Peace.:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hi everyone, i'm new. With that said.

You said that when you ask her out, she ends up not showing up? The next time you ask her out do it in a way that suggest's you were going anyway and that she could come along if she wants. It could also work to your advantage if it was more of a "on the spot" type question(as in your fixing too leave and see has to decide then and there). It will take most of the bs/gp out of the situation.
Ex.Hey, i'm going to such and such and you can come along if you want. (And then give her that look like of course she wants to come along, thats obvious).


In any point in a interaction with a women if you start to get thoughts about whether or not she's into you. OF COURSE she is, and even if she's not what's thinking that gonna hurt? That form of thinking can only lead to a more playfull/fun interaction for the both of you. Also extremely interesting for her.

J.
 
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