Seems like hot and above average girls become a lot easier after college

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

I can't explain what happened but for me and almost all of the guys I have talked to who have been out of college for years now, it seems like hot and above average looking girls become a lot easier to get. In some cases the guy has improved himself but in others like mines it seems like the guy remained the same and nothing really changed about him at all.

Like I think college here in America is a mirage or something. You have so many young hot girls between the ages of 18-22 in one small area and so many interactions with them too yet it seems like they are hard to get for some reason. In hindsight I was also busy with schoolwork and trying to get a nice career going that I had no time to spend on partying a lot and getting wasted every night.

But even looking back at it now, most of the hot girls I ran into were in sororities, in athletics, and occasionally in the acting/arts department.

Girls in the acting/arts department were the nicest in my experience while female athletes and sorority girls as a whole were kunts (though attractive). Yet now most of the hot girls I run into now are a lot nicer and much easier to get along with.

Is it just me though?

 

[Uncharted]

There are a lot of girls that look better in their mid-late 20s than they did in college.

Could also be your game - it gets easier as you get older.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Kinda like a used car ya know?

When it was new only the people willing to pay as much could ride.

But used, it's affordable and not so much of a commitment right?

Kids are your virtual dents and funny noises you hear....

I could buy an old school Porsche cash right now, something that in my youth I could only dream of...

And don't take me wrong, i'll totally super enjoy a classic Porsche now...

 

[zekko]

In hindsight I was also busy with schoolwork and trying to get a nice career going that I had no time to spend on partying a lot and getting wasted every night.

Maybe it's as simple as this for them as well. Maybe the girls are focused on their classes and studying, maybe they're holding down part time jobs as well, maybe they're under a lot of pressure from their parents (who may be paying their way) to get good grades, and maybe they just don't have a lot of time to date. Women are, after all, supposedly better students than men, supposedly they follow the rules and do what they're told better, being as they are naturally more docile. Supposedly.

I know when I went to college I was there to improve myself and get a degree, I didn't have much time to screw around with women, of course I was also working a full time job at the same time, so I thought that meant I had less time than most.

It's funny, because you watch movies about college and no one ever studies, it's just one big party after another. The frat life type of thing. I had no time for that sort of thing when I went, but as I said I was working full time. The plus to that was I never had to take out a student loan.

 

[Mike32ct]

I think this is true. Once she is out of college, she has a more mature and comfortable attitude about sex, and she doesn't necessarily have that close knit social circle to judge her anymore.

I feel like women WOULD F more guys in college, but they are so worried about what their friends think of the guy that they don't. But a post-college female of 26 yo or so might only be out with one girlfriend who is less likely to judge her than her college crew of 12 people.

It's the same with MILFs/Cougars versus young AWs. The mature gf tells her to have fun and be safe. However, the young AW girlfriend is more judgemental and says, "Eww. You're leaving with him? "

 

[Tictac]

College is the last place you will be thrown together with people your age and doing what you are doing until you get admitted to a nursing home.

 

[Jaylan]

That is not my experience OP. College was by far the easiest place for hooking up if you wanted to and knew what you were doing. Dating got harder for me once I left college for a couple reasons.

First off, there were less women immediately available to me...which is a given. In college you see young women in class, at the store, when doing laundry, when eating, etc etc etc (basically during ANY daily activity in a college town, you will run into young women.) Outside of college youre left with either work, hobbies, or nightlife. Work is a bad option obviously....hobbies have less women than they did in college....thus nightlife is the best option if youre not using online dating.

The second reason dating is more difficult after college is that people are a little more mature, and did a lot of their irresponsible hooking up during their 16 to 23 years. Sure many people continue this behavior after high school and college...but its definitely at its height during high school and college.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Jaylan, I don't agree with your view at all about irresponsible sex. For one I find that older attractive women (better known as cougars or milfs) are way more DTF. Depends on what kind of college you go to as well because from what I have seen there is not really much casual sex going around as one would think, particularly involving the hot girls that everyone wants.

It is like a paradox, college girls are stereotyped to be sluts but at the same time when one is a slut her social status goes down the drain for the rest of college.

People are having no strings attached sex well beyond college and at least for the most of their 20s.

Also, I find that even in college it is a very small number of people engaging in the so called hookup culture. Studies have proven this, most people stay in relationships.

 

[Mike32ct]

My point, that I think HHD gets is that older women are less likely to cawkblock. You are also more likely to find a lone wolf older female which is even better .

The young college girls, on the other hand, are in very tight cliques.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Mike you make so many legit points.

Without doubt in my life I felt that I could get most of the hot girls back at my university if I wanted to right now because their circles have dissolved and their cliques are not as powerful. It is almost like it happens at every major school with lots of hot girls whether it is USC (So cal) or Florida St.

You have a sizable number of girls that are hot and almost instantly after the first few months of college they get into their tight cliques. Usually most of these girls end up being in sororities but you still get female athletes and other hot girls who are more independent from that stuff. Even then by some way they form a circle with the same people they will eat with, room with, hang out with, and these will likely be the people that watch them.


This doesn't allow these hot girls a chance for:

- random one night stands
- being seen with other guys that aren't a part of their circle

You take a typical college which is likely in a college town full of 18-22 year olds and you will find that most of these people will be seeing each other again whether it is through being in the same major or just being a part of the same crowd.

It makes college a tough for your average guy to be a DJ because your game and value is constantly being pushed aside by the tight social circles in place. Like I have had friends who had good looks and game that could not get with college girls in a college town but all the while they could get a hotter girl a place like NYC or Miami. Makes it tough because it is a long term investment and if you aren't a big name athlete on campus then you can't do well with the hot girls there unless you are in their social circles which is tough to do.

 

[Mike32ct]

Exactiy.

For the same reason, it's actually easier to pull a 26 yo+ random female in say Vegas or Miami or a cruise ship than a random 21 yo college girl on Spring Break because of the social circle clique factor.

So nobody is saying that college chicks don't hook up. They absolutely do. But if you are an outsider to her circle, you have a better chance hooking up with an older post-college female*.

*Even if the older female is less promiscuous than she used to be, you are still better off.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

I would say that Spring Break is that time it is easier to hook up with a college girl because she is likely to be away from her clique an not be watched as closely as she would be on campus during the school year. It would be tougher during the actual school year itself since the girl is with her clique more and even if she isn't there is someone keeping an eye on her to see who she interacts with.

It is like you can almost sense that these girls are into you and would get with you if the circumstances permitted but there are others in their social circle preventing them from being with you or stopping them from doing so.

 

[Mike32ct]

I would say that Spring Break is that time it is easier to hook up with a college girl because she is likely to be away from her clique an not be watched as closely as she would be on campus during the school year. It would be tougher during the actual school year itself since the girl is with her clique more and even if she isn't there is someone keeping an eye on her to see who she interacts with.

It is like you can almost sense that these girls are into you and would get with you if the circumstances permitted but there are others in their social circle preventing them from being with you or stopping them from doing so.

Yeah I see your point. It's context dependent. If she's traveling with her college crew to Spring Break, it will be difficult to pick her up. But if you find her with maybe only one friend at the time, it may be doable and arguably much easier than at her school.

But anyway, we pretty much see this the same way.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

ya but I am a little upset that college is so hyped up by media and american society though