Seems I made her have conditional sex with me, it was bad, she invites me again

[sosousage]

She tells me now she didnt want the sex back then but we did it cuz i said:
- Im leaving
she asked why and i said:
- because i was here long but nothing happened

and then she stopped me with sex but it was bad and she was dry.

I didnt want to make it conditional, i just thought she wants to fuvk because that was purpose of our meeting... The only one. She refused me escalating many many times and didnt escalate herself so i said i have a bus and thats when this convo happened and she stopped me.


Now she invites me again but idk - how to let her know im in just for sex without making it conditional? I mean she should want it but it seems like she wants to spend time with me and just plans to use sex eventually so i dont leave too quickly... Like it happened..

Before that meeting we flirted sexually a lot and when we meet there would be no sex if i didnt say im leaving... Wtf?

 

[MrWood]

go again, let her come on to you

 

[Reykhel]

You don't let her know by words....

If that's what you have in your head........stick to your guns with that mentality and idea. (that's your frame)

You stay in her presence with that frame.......she buys into it or she doesn't. if she doesn't....got to stick to your
guns and go

 

[sosousage]

go again, let her come on to you

Before i attempted to leave i was there about 3h and she didnt let me escalate but also didnt escalate herself. What would u do?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Before i attempted to leave i was there about 3h and she didnt let me escalate but also didnt escalate herself. What would u do?

Go have sex with someone else . Don't worry about her for a bit .