Seemed promising but she ghosted and so I unmatched

[RazorRambo24]

I would say stop posting your failures and start focusing more on your successes. Most dudes would not even post about this insignificant stitch in time.

Since no one hit the nail on the head here.. You were doin great.. problem is you tried to rush her off th eapp before you created any rapport with her. She thought about it for a second like "do i want to give this guy my number by texting him? I still dont know if hes a lunatic or not" and you basically gave up and unmatched her lol. I don't blame you for unmatching but-- I also get the slightest vibe that you are puttin gon an act trying to be that blunt/ straightforward "badboy" "im the prize" type.. You gotta realize, while that works sometimes, it works for CERTAIN Guys.. who are really that way. If you're faking' the funk, and you aren't knee deep in poonani, you probably aren't the prize my dude. It's always best to be yourself --+10% more. Don't have to go completely like some 80s badboy when you're not that.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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Mannn to hell with Tinder.

Take a ride with me and lets do some day game hunting, ya wanker.

 

[SargeMaximus]

If all you want to do is get laid then it’s best to come up with a unique selling proposition. What makes you unique? It could be a guy who is overtly sexual. You’ll get blown out by 90% of females but that 10% will instantly recognize you and there would be very little game involved.

The last thing you want to be is an in betweener. A guy who is kinda of a nice guy, kinda bad. No, you have no to be a niche. I know a hipster guy who’s totally mastered the hipster niche and pulls hipster chicks all the time. A good way to find your niche is looking at the venues you go to and observe which type pulls the most there. Women go for “types.” That why they say stuff like “he’s cute but not my type.”

I was actually gonna say to your last that I AM trying to cultivate a personality. It’s hard to explain but yeah I’m not just looking to get laid. I’d say I’m trying to get with girls who jump in bed with me fast who I also enjoy being around and have the same values as me.

I would say stop posting your failures and start focusing more on your successes. Most dudes would not even post about this insignificant stitch in time.

Since no one hit the nail on the head here.. You were doin great.. problem is you tried to rush her off th eapp before you created any rapport with her. She thought about it for a second like "do i want to give this guy my number by texting him? I still dont know if hes a lunatic or not" and you basically gave up and unmatched her lol. I don't blame you for unmatching but-- I also get the slightest vibe that you are puttin gon an act trying to be that blunt/ straightforward "badboy" "im the prize" type.. You gotta realize, while that works sometimes, it works for CERTAIN Guys.. who are really that way. If you're faking' the funk, and you aren't knee deep in poonani, you probably aren't the prize my dude. It's always best to be yourself --+10% more. Don't have to go completely like some 80s badboy when you're not that.

I am like this. I’m incapable of being fake it’s against my nature. It’s funny you think it’s an act because it literally isn’t. I don’t have time to try and seduce

 

[RazorRambo24]

I was actually gonna say to your last that I AM trying to cultivate a personality. It’s hard to explain but yeah I’m not just looking to get laid. I’d say I’m trying to get with girls who jump in bed with me fast who I also enjoy being around and have the same values as me.



I am like this. I’m incapable of being fake it’s against my nature. It’s funny you think it’s an act because it literally isn’t. I don’t have time to try and seduce

Alright good, so if you're like that for real, you have to know how to read the chick and know when to tone it down. Alot of what game is is like being a salesman. It helps to be yourself if you're the type of guy who women can easily open up to and feel comfortable with if you come off as super masculine.. But, if you give off playa vibes like I do most of the time, I try to alleviate those ideas by projecting myself as a more standup/nicer guy.. because at the end of the day, i want to unwrap the prize which is that sweet poonani. Sometimes being aggressive and badboyish makes it harder to tease and unwrap that prize. especially if she's a "nice girl" or "inxperienced".. makes them feel like you're trying to rip that box open rather than slowly untie the ribbons and glittery packaging. (This paragraph isnt necessarily about Tinder)

Regardless I think you'll be fine since this is Tinder and you should only focus on the right targets and make your profile crafted to serve that demographic.. I think of it like advertising.. you dont care about the girls who arent down to fucc ur only lookin for the sluts. I sometimes finesse the girls who dont want to fucc jus becuase that poonani comes with more satisfaction.. knowin that she wasnt lookin to put out and wants a long term ship but you cracked it on the first nite.. lol