I used to post here like 10+ years ago. Anyways I need serious life advice.
I'm 34 and am considering marrying the girl I'm dating... should I?
Thea reason I'm considering it is because when we met I said I wanted to get married. Now I want multiple wives, so i changed my mind...my fault
Shes not into at all so its a major impasse. I feel guilty changing my mind. Plus I'm getting older...can i pull it off?
Maybe I should tell you a little about me and her
her:
She is a great person, not shallow, not greedy money *****, hard working susie homemaker type who cant wait to move to a small farm and raise the kids. Trusts me and loves me 100%
personality 10/10 (besides the no other women) looks 6/10 shes cute. great body but just average face shes 27
What else you need to know?
about me:
Im in shape but truthfully average looking
I've have some experience dating women, not a player or an afc. average i guess
i don't fit in with society, i didn't go to public school so i was a weirdo when i was young. anyone would call my opinions radical
financially im stressed. I closed down my business and am working on a new software business but its going to be another year before i have income. I also got sued and spent a 100k fighting it. and I have been building my new business for 2 years so as you can imagine I don't feel large and in charge as I micro manage my small investment income and work really hard
The reason I want multiple wives isn't for my benefit. Its for theirs. I see so many women who are looking for guidance and have no purpose in life. I feel like every girl I date benefits from it. Plus i want lots of kids so its a win win. I also think that marriage is something the weaker partner wants. i dont want to be trapped
I'm very political. I think we are witnessing the decay of society. I take responsibility for everything that happens in the world. I categorically reject the "work hard play hard" mentality and the "i have no purpose so travel" meme or the "look at me" meme . Most people don't get that so its hard to explain. I can tell you more about my political philosophy if your curious
I don't watch porn but the reality is that I don't enjoy sex with a woman after a year or so and it means ltr put me in a tough spot of semi-abstinence
Why Im hung up o the issue:
Being 34 and in a transitory period of my life I think I could secure a better partner in the future and therefore a better future for my children. On one hand the awkward 18 version of myself would love to be in this position. But the new me says keep pushing. I also think that she couldn't land anyone better than me and would be better off sharing me even if shes upset than having some moron all to herself.
Anyone here have multiple wives?
Anyone here have some serious advice?
I'm 34 and am considering marrying the girl I'm dating... should I?
Thea reason I'm considering it is because when we met I said I wanted to get married. Now I want multiple wives, so i changed my mind...my fault
Shes not into at all so its a major impasse. I feel guilty changing my mind. Plus I'm getting older...can i pull it off?
Maybe I should tell you a little about me and her
her:
She is a great person, not shallow, not greedy money *****, hard working susie homemaker type who cant wait to move to a small farm and raise the kids. Trusts me and loves me 100%
personality 10/10 (besides the no other women) looks 6/10 shes cute. great body but just average face shes 27
What else you need to know?
about me:
Im in shape but truthfully average looking
I've have some experience dating women, not a player or an afc. average i guess
i don't fit in with society, i didn't go to public school so i was a weirdo when i was young. anyone would call my opinions radical
financially im stressed. I closed down my business and am working on a new software business but its going to be another year before i have income. I also got sued and spent a 100k fighting it. and I have been building my new business for 2 years so as you can imagine I don't feel large and in charge as I micro manage my small investment income and work really hard
The reason I want multiple wives isn't for my benefit. Its for theirs. I see so many women who are looking for guidance and have no purpose in life. I feel like every girl I date benefits from it. Plus i want lots of kids so its a win win. I also think that marriage is something the weaker partner wants. i dont want to be trapped
I'm very political. I think we are witnessing the decay of society. I take responsibility for everything that happens in the world. I categorically reject the "work hard play hard" mentality and the "i have no purpose so travel" meme or the "look at me" meme . Most people don't get that so its hard to explain. I can tell you more about my political philosophy if your curious
I don't watch porn but the reality is that I don't enjoy sex with a woman after a year or so and it means ltr put me in a tough spot of semi-abstinence
Why Im hung up o the issue:
Being 34 and in a transitory period of my life I think I could secure a better partner in the future and therefore a better future for my children. On one hand the awkward 18 version of myself would love to be in this position. But the new me says keep pushing. I also think that she couldn't land anyone better than me and would be better off sharing me even if shes upset than having some moron all to herself.
Anyone here have multiple wives?
Anyone here have some serious advice?