“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Seeking Arrangement date

Willard

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My friends been on Arrangement Finders for a couple of years, he does really well, for the most part he just takes them out for dinner and drinks and spends a little money on them, He's 45 and the girls are usually around 21.


I'm on vacation in Boston for few more weeks and I signed up yesterday and i went out for coffee with a 23 y.o. cutie who wants a FWB situation hopefully it pans out.

Anyway a 24y.o.from Portland Maine about an hour and a half away messaged me last night. After chatting for a while she agreed to meet, I was going to drive to her, but she said she wouldn't mind coming to me.

She is meeting me at my friends yacht club tonight, my friend has a pretty cool boat. A little while ago she asks some questions, what are you expecting tonight? what kind of arrangement etc... I say dinner and drinks, long term once or twice a week everything she wants to hear.


I'm wondering should I hang out with my buddy and his girl on the boat for a while then out for dinner and drinks? Or he said he can take off and I can have the boat for myself. I'm planning on getting a hotel later if things go well. She has only been on the site since yesterday, I'm her first date, this is my first time doing this as well, any advice would be appreciated.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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