"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Seeing yourself on TV

Scought

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Ya know. I think I am an attractive person.

I like what i see in the mirror and in photos. However, the other day I saw myself on TV and it sucked. Maybe looking at yourself on TV is like looking at yourself through broken glass.

I immediatly found stuff I didnt like. My eyes looked too droopy. I didnt like my smile. I dont get it.

Do any of you ever see yourself on TV and say, damn, do I really look like that?

For some reason I feel like two different people. Its weird. And its not helping feel full of confidence honestly.

Have any of you seen yourself on TV?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJLegion

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Originally posted by AverageFC
I've never been on TV. What were you doing on it?
You've never been filmed by a friend and then seen the movie? Come on man, this guy isn't telling us he's acting in 90210.
 

diablo

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Originally posted by DJLegion
You've never been filmed by a friend and then seen the movie? Come on man, this guy isn't telling us he's acting in 90210.
lol... Anything Else...
 

Fatality

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I haven't seen myself on TV in a long time but I definitly like the way I look better in a mirror than in photos.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hypoxia II

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It's all in your head man. When I first started in radio and I had to hear my own voice, I hated it. I didn't sound half as cool as I thought I did. Well, that's only what I thought. I get calls every day from people and friends and family and especially women, telling me how good and natural I sound.

You only think you look wierd because your not used to seeing yourself on TV. It's the same as recording your voice.

We are our own worse critics and I'm sure this is nothing and nobody else see's you any differently.





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Julian

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I think i look 10x better in pictures. people say im very photogenic.
 

undesputable

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Originally posted by Scought
I like what i see in the mirror and in photos. However, the other day I saw myself on TV and it sucked. Maybe looking at yourself on TV is like looking at yourself through broken glass.

I immediatly found stuff I didnt like. My eyes looked too droopy. I didnt like my smile. I dont get it.

Do any of you ever see yourself on TV and say, damn, do I really look like that?

For some reason I feel like two different people. Its weird. And its not helping feel full of confidence honestly.
No offense, but dont be such a girl, and dont let your confidence drop bc of this
 

AverageFC

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You've never been filmed by a friend and then seen the movie? Come on man, this guy isn't telling us he's acting in 90210.

Oh haha I was being literal.
 
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