"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Seeing this pic of Cristiano Ronaldo made me depressed
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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1. If your voice is dorky, then work on it. You CAN change the way your voice sounds (to a certain extent of course) based on your posture, breathing, and opening of the ribcage.
2. If you're ugly, then exercise and get freaking ripped. Do you think Ronaldo got his physique from eating taco bell or from all the running and lifting he does?
3. Be the best self you can be. Even if you're not in the attractive category. there ARE things you can change about yourself such as your clothes, cologne, shoes, haircut, shaving, hitting the gym, etc.
Do something productive!
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lol good find. arent all euro dudes like this?Bible_Belt said:
It's unfixable. I'm a short guy. I feel bad about it. I always will. I live with it. There's no fixing it, or making me feel better about it. Every man (and woman) has issues he feels bad about.Daniel_March
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Telling everybody how much you hate life will not get you chicks either. Nobody wants to spend time with a depressed person as it makes them feel depressed too.
Look for positive things about yourself and be thankful that you have them. Stop *****ing and do something about it, the power to get beautiful girls is completely in your hands and nobody else's
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.