"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heh tits you beat me to it. :D


I care about my gf and want to start a family but don't feel I could live without some kind of variety.
Who the hell are you trying to convince? You think we are all as stupid as you are? If you cared about your gf, you would tell her what you just did and see if she's ok with it... otherwise, I hope she cuts your balls off brother, you are a scum bag, liar and a cheat. If my wife did that to me, she'd wake up with two black eyes and a dear john.


You're right. I just came back from visiting a prostitute (before reading this post) and I am so glad I did it. It's like a weight has been lifted.

Now I can get back to my real relationship without the desire for variety eating away at me. In fact it makes me appreciate my gf even more as I see now that the desire for new pvssy and the half an hour of bumping uglies then jizzing isn't worth ending a relationship over. But after almost three years of being "faithful" to my gf I had to be reminded of that.
How would you like it if one day you wake up and find out your wife has been whoring her body with street thugs and you .....miiiight need to get tested for HIV, Hep C, Gonorrhea and Herpes.
Or move to Asia, this sort of thing is accepted during the work week. Weekend is family time.
Speed Dawg: Here in Asia, a lot of body parts end up on the black market, just saying.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hypergamy isn't the only reason women leave. They MAY want the husband and his money, need to "have" someone{why so many poor women have kids.... so they will always have someone}, etc. I have a hard time believing my first GF after the divorce left me for a tire changer at a shop. He IS younger {so that is possibly it}, but he is also 10' shorter, 80 lbs lighter, makes a tenth of what I do, and has a speech impediment. When she proudly introduced me to him, I was "like REALLY?"
 
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