seeing one of the new girls... 2 nights in a row? too much yeah?

[powpow]

So I met this girl this weekend through one of my friends. She was super hot. Super cool. And so I decided I wanted to see her again. I think I most likely could have banged her, but I decided to hold back.

Also, there was a lot of jealous ****blocking going on. On my end. My guy friends wanted her, so they kept downing me in front of her. I think thats more of a dlv on their end tho. Needless to say they are not invited out again. Also I used her as a weapon to kick the main ****block in the chest with her 12cm heals. She rather enjoyed that. My female friends thought she was cool too, so they didnt want to see me rush it. Anyway

So I have been texting her. I arranged for me, her, one of my close guy friends (who ****ing understands whats up), and one of these girls he is talking to go out on saturday. She accepts instantly. High interest level. But then she also says she is going out friday too with her friends, and invites me to go.

I put up a little (Im busy with awesome stuff on friday night), but she really wanted me to go, so I accepted. Now I am seeing this girl 2 nights in a row. Is that too much? Should I cancel? I hardly ever give new girls friday OR saturday, and I just gave this girl both. Is that kind of a DLV?

Maybe I am overanalyzing it and she wants me to come so she can get drunk and take me back to her place and get it two nights in a row. These texts have been highly sexual. Still thinking I should have declined friday. What do you think?

 

[powpow]

You know what? tell me if Im wrong.

I think any time that I actually care about getting a girl, I am less effective. Every girl I dont give a **** about, I always get. I think Im just not gonna give a ****. Tell me if thats a bad plan.

 

[LoneWolf]

in my experience if a girl is the one ASKING to see you, even if it's two nights in a row, that's a good thing. i would go for it. just don't do it ALL the time. the girl i'm with now, we spend two nights in a row but not all the time. one weekend it will be just one day and then two/three days later after that. then another weekend it will be fri/sat, both nights. i say if they accept then obviously they like you.

 

[element0]

You know what? tell me if Im wrong.

I think any time that I actually care about getting a girl, I am less effective. Every girl I dont give a **** about, I always get. I think Im just not gonna give a ****. Tell me if thats a bad plan.

I think that is true for most people, caring leads to worrying, worrying leads to overthinking, which leads to inaction, in my experience at least.

I always try to not care (what people think) when I'm out, but I always end up being aware of trying to not care, so I end up caring. The last time I truly lived in the moment at a party, bar, etc I could have banged a legit 9. But I ended up turning her down because I thought she was 17, turns out she was 18, and me not taking action killed the attraction we had in the moment.

 

[bigneil]

I think any time that I actually care about getting a girl, I am less effective.

This is true. I've wondered if I should have preemptively ended the relationship myself the moment I started feeling "AFC-ish" around her. Has anyone tried that with success? Maybe we need to dump them early on so they are the ones who chase us.