"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Seeing how she feels

TheNewGuy

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Alright, so i've been talking to this girl and she's dropped a couple of hints about "this guy". She describes him and he sounds amazingly similar to me. Couple of hints later and I'm positive the guy she's describing is me. I want to ask her about it, but I don't want it to be too akward. I'm thinking of just being like "Hey you know that guy you were describing, he sounds pretty familiar ;)" but I'm not entirely sure if thats the right thing to do. Any tips from the DJ's?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Great line, problem is she is living a bit away now, and we really only see each other a couple months a year. I'd like to keep a steady phone/online presence going and then on the few times we see each other, hookup :D

Heh, thanks anyways though... I'll remember that line.
 
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