"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Seeing how she feels

TheNewGuy

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Alright, so i've been talking to this girl and she's dropped a couple of hints about "this guy". She describes him and he sounds amazingly similar to me. Couple of hints later and I'm positive the guy she's describing is me. I want to ask her about it, but I don't want it to be too akward. I'm thinking of just being like "Hey you know that guy you were describing, he sounds pretty familiar ;)" but I'm not entirely sure if thats the right thing to do. Any tips from the DJ's?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheNewGuy

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Great line, problem is she is living a bit away now, and we really only see each other a couple months a year. I'd like to keep a steady phone/online presence going and then on the few times we see each other, hookup :D

Heh, thanks anyways though... I'll remember that line.
 
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