seeing a girl who already got a boyfriend

[NEO79]

hi all, this is my 1st ever post.

i've been seeing this girl who alredy got a boyfriend, i dont know her boyfriend.
they've been together 6 months, she has a 2 y o daughther but not his.
we are friends until a few weeks backs, she texted me after a house party round mine wanting to meet up, so we did.
we took her kid out and basically were having a good time just as friends.... but not for long before i found out that she likes me more than just a friend,
1 day i went round to see her, we talked but i said to myself i wont do anything cos she has a b/f, she said things that made me feel so special like.... how good i look n how nice of a person i am..
its very nice to hear cos i've been on my own for over 2 and a half years after my EX slept with another man behind my back so that boosted my confidence...
she then asked to kiss me.....so we kissed... i couldnt resist it, her blue eyes were so dreamy and i fell for them.
i felt guilty even tho i've never met her b/f.
thats as far we went....kisses only.....
i wanted to stop meeting up with her but i'm finding very hard to do so.
we agreed not to see each other for a week, we deleted each other mobile number so that we cant text our feelings but she turned up at my door the next day. we both said how hard it was not to be able to see each other.
seems weird cos we didnt start to meet up until 3 weeks ago (17/05/05)
can u feel for sum1 that strongly in a short period of time...
she cried when i told her we shouldnt see each other again.
i cant help falling for it everytime i look into her eyes...

can any1 help please.....

 

[School]

I think you are infatuated with this chick. For one thing, you seem a little desperate because you have been single for so long.

I would say, take it slow and see where it goes. You maybe attracted to her BECAUSE she has a man. The thrill of the chase. People are always more attracted to something they can't have. This may be the same for her. I say this because, if the feelings were that strong, she would leave her man. I would say, see what happens. If she wants you that bad, she would leave her man for you.

By the way, how old are you all?

 

[Q-Pid]

She has a two year old kid - Man 1
She's seeing someone else - Man 2
She's seeing you - Man 3

Who's to say there aren't more?

She honestly doesn't seem that genuine. The fact it's only taken three weeks for you two to "fall in love" suggests she moves fast/is hard to keep interested. Don't be suprised if she plays you.

Those feelings of love aren't genuine. You've just not experienced anything for such a long time you're prepared to go for any woman who makes you feel better.

I'm not one for suggestign you "NEXT" someone - but I reccomend you proceed carefully.

 

[darthsidious]

it seems this women has more power than neo79 has. change yourname to lamer79 now...

DO IT.

 

[School]

NEO79, How old are you guys??

 

[RYGAR]

as it is written seriouse for seriouse
not seriouse for not seriouse is balanced but if seriouse relationship man or women sees non seriouse relationship man or women than one of the others will be hurt but as to say seriouse relationship is the right way and only way and best way

reality its meant for one man one woman forever and in lifetime ..........

dont be mislead from this girl anymore cause she is young you can get in trouble she can get pregnant and so will you feel hurt always she is useing you cause if she did care she would see no one else ..... if you continue than will you be as a fool to further damage yourself not only will the boyfriend be upset at you but so will you damage
stay away from her forever ~ or other wise she should not see him at all she should tell him off and not see him

believe me you are heading for destruction if you dont turn away

 

[RYGAR]

and another advise if there is no women then there is no porn remember like if guys come up with the money and want some women to go remember the women submits to it then so does the porn videos come out ~ remember if a women says yes to a guy opens her legs women get pregnant men do not
but remember dont get involved cause you are only gonna hurt yourself and will you want to have people after you and pay for child support dont get involved in the
first place

 

[NEO79]

thanks for advice.....

 

[Pimp-sicle]

RYGAR: No one understands WTF your saying!!! LOL



Don't let your desperation make you settle for a crazy messed up girl like this one!!! She is a army of RED FLAGS!!

-Has a kid
-Has a bf
-Has stockerish type tendencies, showing up at your door

She sounds like she gets cheap thrills outta playing with guys feelings, because she's obiviously been through a lot in her life. I bet she's been abused, raped, or neglected in her childhood. That's the only reason women end up like this!!! You need to avoid her and find a normal girl because she WILL ruin your life!!



PIMP

 

[NEO79]

thanks all ....

 

[TizZle]

I read the thread and barely read ur post and here's my 2 cents.
She has a b/f and u want what u cant have. Plain and simple.

1. Ur and emotion tampon aka a nice guy friend for a girl
2. your the next replacement ( but if you are dont take sh!t from her because your the prize).

You are single and she is not so that probably automatically makes her a little better than you in your mind subconiously. Focus on yourself for you will be the prize once u do. She maybe wondering if you are a better man than she is currently with.

She's with her b/f and you must make her come to you not the other way around. Sure, men are suppose to want women and women are suppose to be wanted by men, but in this situation where she is aready with a man, you have to be smart about the whole scenario.

She must realize you are the prize for her to break the connection with the other guy.

 

[NEO79]

thanks