“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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See that HB9 over there? YOU'RE making HER nervous.

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You know the feeling you have on the first day of the new semester, when you walk into class, pick a seat by yourself, and sit there and wish someone would come and talk to you? You know how self-conscious you feel, because it seems like everyone knows everyone, but nobody's talking to you, and you'd love for ANYONE to come up and introduce themselves?

EVERYONE (and "everyone" includes the girls, possibly moreso than anyone else) feels like this everywhere they go. Once you realize that everyone just wants someone to come and say hi to them, introducing yourself is so much easier.

You're not sitting there feeling self-conscious because you're a loser, you're sitting there because you're HUMAN. The HB9 over there in the corner wants someone to come say hi, MAYBE EVEN MORE THAN YOU DO. "I'm hot", she thinks to herself "so why isn't anyone coming to talk to me? Maybe I'm not that hot. I bet all the guys are interested in THAT girl over there...her butt's disgusting, and she's so fat. I wish someone would just come and talk to me."

Realize that everyone is just as nervous as you are, and you'll be fine.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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...a good way of looking at things :).

what if everyone really does know eachother except for you? that really sucks (it happens to me a lot when i join a lot of new activities...such as youth and church and all clubs or whatever).
 
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In theory, you shouldn't. But this is life...DJ or not, you're still a human being. Anyone who says they're not at ALL nervous is lying.

It's not about imagining that everyone is nervous...it's about realizing. It's not a mental game, it's the plain and simple truth. So go up and say hi, they're waiting for you.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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