"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seduction techniques are pure bull****

Ease

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Shivastorm_88 said:
I'm pretty sure a "natural" never thought to himself: "Damn if I don't wait 3 days she will think I am desperate!", or "quick, gotta neg her to reduce her social value in order to raise her attraction!".
They do and that is the problem.

Instead of maybe calling it the 3 day rule, they might just call it playing it cool. Seduction companies just teach this to unsuccessful guys who dont have this knowledge, and they use words and programs to simplify it.

Girls do this to a spectacular degree. They are born with more game and tricks than a man could learn in his lifetime of experience.

Naturals aren't just born natural, experience is one of the most important parts.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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