"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Seduction Diary

Krassus

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INTRODUCTION

I'm starting up a new diary to document all my seduction attempts, including the failed / unattempted ones. Those of you who are into reality shows should get a kick out of this :) A little about myself. I'm 21, pretty good looking, very well dressed and in great shape. I'm an entrepreneur by profession and my hobbies include sports (tennis, volleyball, bodybuilding, etc), reading (philosophy, psychology, business, self-help, etc), socializing (malls, streets, bars, clubs, etc), building businesses, racing cars (or merely driving like a maniac until i get my track membership), and a whole lot of other things i can't think of right now.

I've been in the game for nearly two years, and specialize in what i like to call Direct Natural Game. In other words, there are absolutely no rules and i do whatever the hell i like. Quite literally. I enjoy experimenting and often do really far-out approaches just to see how far i can push the limits. I'm fairly direct, as i'll often go as far as approach girls with parents or guy friends and flat-out tell them i want them. Sometimes, i still experiment with indirect, but in a way that's congruent with my personality (i don't fake disinterest, lie, etc). I'll only use indirect if i genuinely feel like it (not because i want to trick girls).

I approach with an empty head because i want to get good at talking on the fly without any memorized canned routines. Besides, i can already come up with better stuff on the fly most of the time. I don't believe in having to study seduction because from my perspective, studying seduction means having to work for girls, which i something i don't believe i should do. Instead, i take the natural path, have fun and experiment. I'm ultra-social and love talking to everyone. I believe that i'm the catch, and avoid doing anything that conflicts with this belief (such what i just said about studying seduction).

I only approach girls 8 and up (and i mean real, solid 8) and am working on fully internalizing the Autopilot Habit, which is basically a habit of approaching any desireable girl regardless of circumstances, no matter how extreme. I already do this about 80% of the time, but my goal is 100%. I want to be absolutely free and able to take whatever i want, whenever i want it. Living with a proverbial chain attached to your foot isn't living at all.

Which is why i'm not really looking for a relationship. Hell, i don't even know what i'm looking for anymore. Sometimes, i honestly just want to be friends, other times, i only want sex, and every so often, i'll be in the mood for something more serious. But i like remaining undecided, as it keeps things fresh. And besides, i hate having an agenda in mind. I'd rather get to know the chick and then decide where i want to go. Anyway, enough of this. On to the good stuff!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Krassus

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DATE: MARCH 28, 2005

MISS #1: 8.0Spanish sitting with her entire family on a bench at the mall. I was genuinely lost, and started talking to the entire family to get directions while my buddy was checking out the directions board. However, i admittedly pussied out and didn't go for her. I've approached girls with moms or dads before, but a half-dozen relatives felt overwhelming. I really should have gone direct and just asked if she was single. In the past, this has worked wonders with relatives, since its very congruent with their image of a well-mannered, old-fashioned, strong gentleman. Mothers absolutely love a guy who can demonstrate strength in a stylish way. I deserve a kick in the balls for this.

MISS #2: 8.5Asian checking out jewelry with a geeky-looking guy. I've directly picked up girls in this same situation over a dozen times before, but today, yet again, i pussied out. I don't know what the hell got into me, as this type of behavior isn't like me at all. Needless to say, this second miss really pissed me off and i swore to myself that i'll go for the next girl i like, no matter what. Come to think of it, i think i only missed it because i missed the first one. Bad state snowballs, as does good state. There's NO WAY i could have missed it had i done what i should have with the Spanish chick! Live and learn.

HIT #1: And there she is, 8.0Asian sitting on a bench all by herself, looking really sad. I walked by in front of her ever so slowly, checking her out and making sure i like her. Then i just sat beside her and playfully asked why she looks so sad. The conversation really took off and i found out that she's 28 (7 years older than me) as of today, since its her birthday. Sells mutual funds for a living, which i liked because i'm a businessman/investor myself. Plays tennis and volleyball, which are two of my favorite sports. About ten minutes later, i grabbed her digits and left. Wanted to talk to her a little longer, but my buddy was in a hurry.
 

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All right, Keep us posted. I like this one!
 
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